Try Craigslist, you can find anything there!
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I have a few ideas. Talk to me about it. I love you !
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I'm the OP. I have looked in CL but being a newbie @ this it seems so inpersonal. It feels like i am hiring somebody.. know what i mean? How can I find our third? Can somebosy tell me how they did it the first time? I'm hot so I want our Girl to be HOT TOOOOO...
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Does your husband want to have a threesome, or do you?
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He does... (me too) We have NO idea how to even approach somebody so I thought I would try and surprise him... He wont do another couple (I guess is a man thing and I don't care because he is all the man that I need) but he has fantasized about me and a girl for a while.
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Don't do it. I have. It hurt. We are now divorced. I felt the same way you did... trust me on this. DO NOT DO IT.
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It all depends on where your emotions are, are you a jealous person? are you wanting it to be a one time thing, or are you wanting it to be ongoing? i am a woman and I joined another couple in a relationship for a while, because part of the relationship, and it was great. very hard work to keep everyone emotionally happy and not feel left out, but worth it for sure. The girl and i were not quite the same people at the time, but we are all very good friends now and they have a different thrid in the relationship. I met them at a kink event in the city i live in. Try finding your local kink group, or swingers club. best of luck!
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on the post above, I meant *being part of the relationship*, not because. i should have re-read what i wrote before i posted it, sorry
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it will never work you will always have the image of him f***ing someone else in your head. why even get married in the first place if you are going to have sex with everyone else?
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I tried it. The first was the next door neighbor. You may think you want a 3way but IMO the fantasy is better than reality. If you've thought about it and still want to try it, go to a bar.
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don't you have any friends??? I did it with my best friend a couple of times, with ehr man they arne't together anymore but we are still friends :D
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skanks to go?
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You both may think you want it, and may very well enjoy it, if it ever becomes a reality. Your marriage will not survive - guaranteed.
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I agree with so many other posters here. This is something that is VERY VERY likely to tear your relationship apart. The fantasy is ALWAYS better, in reality it can cause so much friction and issues.
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don't you people realise once the fantasy becomes real you can never use it as a fantasy again.
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^so what ur saying is that you should never make any fantasy come true???
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OP Here. thanks for all of the advise. We have a solid relationship, this would be only for fun. We have been together for almost 20yrs. We thought now would be a good time to go wild and make some our fantasies come tru. I just wanted to surprise him on our special day and BLOW his mind away.. literally.. LOL
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I say go for it. My wife surprized me with a 3way with her best friend. Really really good time but I was careful to only take direction when dealing with the friend. I was terrified I'd do something to send her off. It was nice enough that we did it many more times after that. Still friends.
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won't be ur hubby no more...
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have a 4some this way you hubby can watch some other guy with a bigger cock plow your oussy
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^ahhh. are you mad that it is not ur girl???!! My hubby's dick is quite large that is one of the MANY reasons I do not need another guy in the mix!! That was cute but try again...
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I agree with everyone, DONT DO IT! I did it and now i'm divorced, actually both couples divorced. You better have a rock solid relationship, no doubts at ALL.
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Be your own person on this one luv! trust your instincts and not other people's. Ive been there and done that many times and my husband and I are still together happily married for 14 years.
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DONT DO IT! IF U MUST DO IT THEN FIND A FEMALE THAT IS WAY LESS ATTRACTIVE THAN YOU. SO THAT WAY WHEN U AND UR HUSBAND ARE HAVING SEX, U WON'T THINK HE'S IMAGINING THE SEXIER 2.0 VERSION OF YOU RIDING HIM.
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He will get hard for the new girl not you because you are old news and the new girl is well new.He will not be able to stop thinking of the new girl. You are fooling yourself if you think it is about you.
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Try Craigslist. I was a newbie too and wanted to do it for my bf. We met a great girl and she had always had a fantasy andwanted to act on it. It worked out for everyone and we had a great time. It brought me and my bf closer.
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