It's good you're scared. Stay scared! At least you'll be protecting yourself from a flood of horrible diseases or an unwanted baby! If he won't use one then he's an untrustworthy jerk. Most respondsible men will wear a condom!
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show him a pamphlet on std's.....then tell him the only way you will touch it is if it is wrapped! or you could take him for a visit to your local hospitals nursery...i bet it would change his mind lol!
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stick to your guns - there are plenty of other guys out there more than willing to wrap it up, and someone who doesn't respect your request is more than likely not worth your time...
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Most guys don't want to use a condom. But given the choice of condom vs. no sex at all, he'll make the right choice or you will. He's going to continue to try and talk you out of it. But don't hold it against him, he's an immature guy. Until they turn 25 they're pretty much all immature. I know this because I'm a guy and I've attempted to talk my way out of every condom I've ever been "forced" to wear up until that time. You seem like a smart girl. Keep it up!
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"No glove, no love", unless you want a kid and are willing to take a chance on who knows what (you're not the first even if he says so), you've got the right mentality. If he keeps pushing, leave. There's plenty of guys with a decent head on their shoulders, find one.
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To Hell with your boyfriend. If he doesn't want to use a condom then break up with him.
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Wow, thanks so much! I love that I have so much support. I feel better!
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Stick to your guns!
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Yeah don't get weak. Yeah so it feels better without one but you know what won't feel better?? Herpes or gonnorhea omg go look at pictures of infected genitals and show him that he should be scared too. EWWwwww
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speaking of condoms, what are the best ones to use if your not used to wearing one?
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don't delude yourself into thinking Condoms are 100%. My "burst rate" was over 10% when I was using them. Don't be screwing around if you are not ready for the consequinces.
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Anal sex might prevent a baby, but you have a higher chance of getting sexually transmitted infections(STI)
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~~~ is an idiot
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Yes, I agree that ~~~ is an idiot!!
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Scrape the scumbag off. He's not worth it. Truth be told he probably has something he'd like to give you and I doubt you want it. Besides you have the upper hand here...what he's got you can get as many of those as you want. They'll happily put on the rain coat to get in too.
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Trust your gut! No glove no love!!!!!!!!
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Don't back off. If you don't want to have sex without a condom, don't. This is not an issue that you should compromise on. Sex should never be about compromises.
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I am a 49 year old man. If he has one ounceof care or respect for you he would respectyou AND your request !! No questions asked ! You will notice I did NOT include the word love here. This tells me that he does not love you but just wants what HE wants and does not really give a damn about you !! Sorry if this sounds harsh,but love is about respecting,listening,being openand balanced with your partner. Sex for the sake of sex,is just that, but to make love with someone you truly love and loves you the same has no comparison !! Please; Do not learn this the hard way by "giving in" to someone who "does not get it" and thus does not really care about you !
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Good for you - stick to your guns! The guy sounds very selfish, and if you're scared of him, drop him like a hot brick!
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