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I wanna scream.. LETS GET MARRIED.. but I'll have to wait til you're ready. I love you so much!

I wanna scream.. LETS GET MARRIED.. but I'll have to wait til you're ready. I love you so much!

 
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Aww sweet! I know how you feel!!!!
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HUUUUUUGE red flag there. If one partner "has to wait" until the other is "ready", then there are severe relationship issues at work. You need to get some counseling WAY before you get married.
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^you may have read way too much into that one. i took it as she has found the one and is waiting for him to ask her so she won't ruin the moment. i KNEW my husband would propose to me at some point but instead of nagging him about it and making an ass out of myself i waited until he was totally prepared so it could be more special....and it was well worth the wait :)
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^ OP here.. you hit the nail on the head.. Congrats to you :)
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Wow... even worse. A woman waiting for a man to propose??? Geez, this is 2010, not 1510. You need to grow up.
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^you need to get laid!
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^^i'm sure when it happens it will be awesome!!!
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the day will come and it will be worth the wait. smile on
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i know how you feel :(
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I proposed because someone whined and cried and badgered me. I so regret this decision now.
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He either knows that he want to be with you forever or doesn't feel as you feel for him.
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Whatever you do, DO NOT push him into it. Eventually he will be resentful.
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Well talking about marriage and kinda finding out what the time table is isn't negative here. I mean it doesn't really ruin the moment if he proposes when your least expecting it. Just cuz you talk about marriage sooner than later doens't mena he has to propose the next day, but just so each of you know where each of you stands?!
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I wish someone loved me like that
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Why so fast? Slow down. Sew your wild oats and hop for crop failure!
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I am in the same boat only we have been together almost 4 years and nothing yet. I jsut don't get it. I have to have a talk with him but part of meis scared it will be the end, Good lick to you!!
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Marriage is not the measure of how much someone loves you or you love someone.Sometimes it's all about ownership.Cynical maybe. Experience? Plenty.
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Gee, I wonder why the divorce rate is so high?Oh now I get it immaturity.........
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^ so true. And women base their life on being married...women need to to be a bit more independent and value themselves.
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^^ OP here.. I've was married for 13 years. I know how it goes. I've been with this guy for 2 years and its a meant to be situation.. I'm just impatient, not immature. My boys love him. I love him and can wait as long as it takes. No rush..
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