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I know we're headed for a divorce no matter how hard we try. I'm just working up the courage to say it first.

I know we're headed for a divorce no matter how hard we try. I'm just working up the courage to say it first.

 
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It sounds like you are both trying to make it work. That means it isn't over completely. You should look into marriage counseling, or at least talk about the problems.
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do it. im happier now then i have been in 10yrs
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We have been through hell and back... Now we live in bliss because we stood together and worked through our problems... Tend to your marriage everyday not just when it's in trouble
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People have been known to survive train wrecks.
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i wish you luck either way.
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#2 post is that you Dan? If so hope the burls made it home ok. lol
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You both want to get away from each other.Do it! Walk away from the train wreck with your dignity.
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Did someone pull a train on you?
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Just sign the paperwork. Life will begin anew.
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commit to getting out cleanly or commit to making it work. The middle ground is were you are headed.
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this is sad, i really want to marry but can't cause this is how it ends up...why do people end up hating each other?
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^ because of cunts like you.
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Let me put it in your caboose.
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^2 probably right, thanks for the compliment
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Find a good friend that you know who knows a lawyer personally. It helps greatly. Luckly, my attorney was a personal friend.Also, take your personal file you two have and photocopy everything in it. I mean EVERYTHING. Then, find a family member who loves you enough to let you live with them for free for about 4 or 5 years. Do that, and you will be able to start a new life. Now for dating. Wait about two years. Your head will be screwed up AT LEAST that long. Most likely longer. Then when you begin to date, do not sleep with your partner for a minimum of 6 months. By just dating, you will see character flaws far clearer when you do not sleep with someone shortly after meeting. Good luck
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"one less set of footsteps on the floor" Jim Croce.. play it for him and then get to packing!
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yank the Band-Aid off and just tell them.. you'll feel so much better when you do and you can begin to heal. I did.
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