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all ive ever wanted was to find real love, someone to understand me, and at 26 im starting to wonder if im incapable of it. i feel empty, emotionless, numb

all ive ever wanted was to find real love, someone to understand me, and at 26 im starting to wonder if im incapable of it. i feel empty, emotionless, numb

 
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i'm 39 and it never got better, love yourself first, there all players sista
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I think the key to finding someone is not to sleep with them for AT LEAST six months. Just date them. When the emotion with sex is not involved you will see women much clearer. I swear, i have learned more about women with this piece of advice than any other. I just date them and observe. You will be amazed at how much is revealed to you about them. When you find a good one, they will be more receptive to your thoughts.
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im the op, im a woman.... i already know how we are... i just dont understand men. at all. :(
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My sister found the love of her life @ the age of 31. Then again she tells me that she was not prepared before then because she didn't take time to love herself. Do that first and you will be able to allow others to love you too
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There is love out there. More men want it than you think. The problem is more women are interested in money than the love. I blame the economy for this in part. Not saying you are, just when so many are it hurts the other women. So hang in there, you find someone who really loves you and you them.
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love is a bullshit emotion we use to cover the truth that we are afraid of dying alone. get over this fear and you will realize that we all die alone anyway involving yourself in a relationship will not save you from this.
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get out of mom's basement, for a start
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I f.ucking hate clowns.
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^Yeah, clowns suck.
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Stop trying to find it. Lov is all around you all you have to do is open ur heart and mind to see it.
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^ yeah and all your chocolate covered dreams will magically fall out the sky. LMAOLike the one person said too many women looking for money..you should look to guys who don't make a lot, then you will actually have to spend more actual bonding time together. Love isn't going here and there doing this and that.
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Love will come to you when you least expect it!! You are still young. I thought I met the man of my dreams at 26 and picked up my life for him. six months later I had nothing but a huge credit card bill and had to move back home! Take your time don't be in such a rush!
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if you want love, quit being a whore
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35 never married, no kids, no friends, can't hang onto a girl for more than 6 months, go years without a girl by my side, and it is a very very dark and cold place in the heart after about 8 years alone. Now as the years tick by and several prayers for death a day; I actually am getting use to it and kind of prefer it.
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i find that very sad honestly. to me, i feel like if i could just find that one person, life would make sense and i would have a reason to believe again, maybe even prove to myself that i can feel.
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Oh boo hoo....26 and haven't found "the one" yet. At 26 you should be enjoying your free time, cultivating your interests and working on your career. Women put way too much into finding that "soul mate" (a ridiculous concept if you ask me), and then are always (99% of the time) crushed and devestated when it doesn't work out like a fairy tale, when real-life rears it's ugly head.
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If you require finding "that one person" in order to have life make sense, to "feel again", then I am sorry, either you are having a pity-party for yourself, or you are going to have a very tough life....if's its the later, I feel sorry for you but odds are it ain't gonna happen.
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