so you are depressed and you think now is a good time to get off your meds so you can get pregnant? i don't know you but from what i just read i would say that does not sound like a good idea.
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OP here. Not meds, birth control, so I can get pregnant. Not depressed enough to need meds. We have been together almost 9 years now and have 1 son together. He knew coming into the relationship I wanted atleast 2 kids. Seemed fine with it then. I love him and don't want to lose him. That's where I start feeling the depression hit. Conflicting feelings are running thru my head. I know he loves me....but he doesn't seem to want the same things as me anymore. Our first child together is not at all bad either so I don't think that's a reason for him. Stopping the pills was a mutual decision before and I would like for it to be a mutual decision again. Sad part is, we are not getting any younger and I'm afraid I may miss my chance. At a lose for what to do..............
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Children are not glue. Children will not make your husband love you. Children will not make him stay when he's finally had enough! If he doesnt want the same things as you anymore then maybe you should go to counseling before even thinking of having a baby.. take if from a single mom of 2!!!!
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have you told him all of this op?
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If he doesn't want the baby, and you get pregnant, you are in for hell. He will leave you. Don't you think it's not necessary to kill a relationship? You have a child.
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If y'all had a son, f*** having a possible daughter. The name carries on...
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You're taking pills for emotional problems and you want to teach another kid how to be raised and live?
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^Read the second comment a little closer. She clearly states Birth Control pills, not for emotional problems.
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I understood ur post, I just wonder what ur depressed about? Please don't be depressed just bc u want another child, some of us can have none, and u have 2 people to share ur love
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if he doesn't want another child, you are in for trouble if you get knocked up. and how exactly do you explain being on BC and getting prego? things to think abt.. it should be a choice you make as a team, not one person making it for the whole family. everything changes with two, trust me.. its way easier with one, two will make every dynamic change in each person in the family. sit him down, talk to him abt it!
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if he doesn't want another child, you are in for trouble if you get knocked up. and how exactly do you explain being on BC and getting prego? things to think abt.. it should be a choice you make as a team, not one person making it for the whole family. everything changes with two, trust me.. its way easier with one, two will make every dynamic change in each person in the family. sit him down, talk to him abt it!
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