the life you had before your child is not the same now as it was then. everything and everyone changes in time. the life you have now can be the most rewarding you will ever know. love, nurture, protect and invest in this child - the love is unconditional.
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You are completely normal as long as you are not obsessed with your life before your child. It's OK to miss the old days occasionally, but you have to live in the now and plan for the future.
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Completely understand. I miss the freedom to go do what I want when I want, or go shopping without a screaming two year old. But when they say I love you mommy it melts my heart and that is irreplaceable,I wouldn't change this life for the world.
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Every mom does this at one time or another. You are NOT selfish or sick!
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every mother feels this way to some degree. especially after your first child. who wouldnt miss sleeping in, answering to no one, doing whatever you want...??? they are only little for a short time though. enjoy your baby now. you get your life back later!
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Anyone with kids knows that feeling! We love our kids but life before was a breeze filled with money. After kids all your money goes towards them and your fun is watching them have fun! lol
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Give urself a little break. We all daydream and then come back to reality. What I would do is to try and get a little time for yourself maybe a day or two. Take time to just relax and do things that you normally couldn't.. I'm a MOM and I completly understand. ;.)
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How do you know the OP isn't the DAD?
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(OP) I am a mother
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totally normal i feel the same way sometimes and i love the hell out of my kids. don't pay any attention to the haters. you're a great mom!
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Me too !!!!!!!!!!!!
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Wow... I couldn't imagine wanting even a single second of my pre-baby life back. I think that some parents are just too immature, and have kids way too young. If you're not ready to change everything for a child, then you're not ready for parenthood.
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^ sometimes parenthood comes, not planned, but you make the right choice and go with the flow. Thats not immature, and yes, sometimes you wish for the prebaby days back.. but wouldn't trade it for the world. Not every part of life is planned, but its better to stand up and be a woman/man. In the end you are a better person for it! And there isn't anything wrong with having the thoughts the OP expressed.
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REALLY PEOPLE?!?! You couldn't imagin a single day wanting to be pre-nany?! Never in a restaurant have you missed eating without having little ones there.. Or going out with your husband just because you can???!! Never?! I feel for your children because you are all liars and spend your time judging others.. You are a GOOD MOM OP. Eveybody has those thoughts. By the way ^2 being prepared to change everything does not mean you won't miss it here and there
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^ sometimes parenthood comes, not planned, but you make the right choice and go with the flow. Thats not immature, and yes, sometimes you wish for the prebaby days back.. but wouldn't trade it for the world. Not every part of life is planned, but its better to stand up and be a woman/man. In the end you are a better person for it! And there isn't anything wrong with having the thoughts the OP expressed.
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Oh thank god...finally a real, honest secret. Bravo for your bravery, knowing you would have to face all the people who are delusional about their feelings about parenthood. You know, the same ones whose bogus secrets are, "I love my kids so, so, so much!!!!!"
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just don't be like casey anthny and miss your old life too much.
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Wow... there are a lot of immature parents out there. Time to leave the clubs days behind, kiddies - parenthood is work.
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shoulda kept them legs closed and you can't get preggo's if you blew him instead:O
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