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My boyfriend has yet to make me O and its been a year. I love him, but I'm getting frustrated. Not bc it hasen't happened, but because he doesn't care to try.

My boyfriend has yet to make me O and its been a year. I love him, but I'm getting frustrated. Not bc it hasen't happened, but because he doesn't care to try.

 
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Maybe he'd make a better friend. Lol. (Actually Im serious)
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...next time tell him you want yours b4 he gets his...
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Have you ever tried to guide him verbally or physically into doing what will get you to O? Try it, it might work and he will learn as you go.
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Its been a year and he doesn't care to try? Move on, he doesn't love you. sorry but you deserve to be happy.
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it's been my experience that the more 'generous' a guy is in bed, the more thoughtful and caring he is in the relationship, also. maybe this issue goes farther than lack of orgasm?
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...1up u r so right. i always do my best to make a woman cum so hard that she claws my back or becomes rigid and stiff or shakes uncontrolably or screams so loud or forgets to breath or starts insisting i pull her hair or...
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Are you faking? If you are, he thinks it is working. So why try anything else?
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And maybe he is a closet gay and your his friend and nothing more but he cannot tell you.
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been married 10yrs hubby never has either i feel your pain
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You need to tell him that if he can't learn to cut the mustard, he at least needs to learn to lick the jar. Then teach him where it feels the best when his tongue hits the right spot.
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Maybe your clit is deep down in your throat.
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maybe you need a bigger man( not touching you where you need to be touched)
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i feel, i was intimate with a guy for about 6 or 7 years, only once he kind of tried and when i started feeling it, he jumped, i think he is bi or something. i found a real man (friend with benefits) omg can't believe what i was missing. go for it, it is worth it.lol
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Please... it's not up to the guy. It's up to YOU to make sure that happens. YOU have to tell him what you like and if he doesn't even bother to help you then screw him. Real men will want you to O. Selfish pigs or little boys don't have a clue.
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^ I must be a selfish pig... LOL!
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Scape him off now. If he has not interest in satisfying you now it will only be worse later. Trust me I speak from experience. You will get so lonely and tired of being neglected that you will f*** someone behind his back and end up leaving him anyway. He sounds selfish maybe you should be selfish too! ;)
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^me too, i got sick of blowing all the time, it got old. people can tell, someone came on to me and made me feel like a woman. that was the end.
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to the op, maybe you are not in as love as you think. i reconnected with old gf after 7 years she is the love of my life its just complicated now but trying to figure it out. but we made love the other day and she O'd 4 times. It's also an emotional connection that helps women.
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Hell, I've been married 9 months, and hubby doesn't even try to have sex, much less make me O. And he is not cheating, he's always around except at work.
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2^ women dont orgasm 4 times in a row. It is possible but very unusual. Seriously! lol @ you for believing her!!
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^2 oh yeah???? i have before, now it's down to 2, only because i get cramps. lol
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cum to me
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Quit laying under the bus. O for you means success for him: teach him. WTF,, do you think that every man and woman was born to please the other sex. It takes communication, chemistry, and consensual acts to fulfill the need. He can be a ruddy RAM of a true lover...your choice.
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dump him, you'll never be happy
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what a prick,I always make sure the woman has as many O,s as possible before I consider myself, It is amazing to see her get off
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