if you're not even going to try to move past it, just leave the guy!! life is too short, neither of you deserve to feel this awful everyday.
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^^I agree with the first post. I also think there is alot more going on with your character than you are letting us know about. Perhaps you need a big dose of introspection. You may be the only reason why he did what he did. I cannot imagine that you where pleasant to be around, then suddenly you became a daily griping hag everyday after the affair. Being obsessed with your revenge is not normal, mature, or mentally healthy
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Could the cheating been a symptom of the problem not The problem??
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cant blame ya. I've been there myself. It takes a long while for you to build trust again. But speaking from experience if you dont let go then its just going to make things worse.
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My husband cheated on me a long time I ago . I forgave him and took my share of the blame. By not forgiving and giving your man hell everyday don't you think he is going to grow tired and leave you ? You were probably not that nice to begin with therefore he turned to someone else . Maybe two arms that held him because they wanted to and not because they had to . THINK ABOUT IT BEFORE IT IS TOO LATE .
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STOP blaming the wife!!Men cheat simply because they CAN!
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Yes he can and will probably continue if he is treated bad at home .
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^^^2 UP. Then why do women cheat?
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those ppl that preach "forgive and forget" can kiss my back door !! we never forget and rarely forgive. Its impossible to un-ring a bell !!!!
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Hey OP, suck him off every once in a while. Quit holding on to so much anger, it's not healthy for you or your relationship. I would have left you already if I wer him....off to find some younger than you hottie that lets me have my way with her. I bet you didn't give it up to him barely ever before he cheated on you, and don't at all now. What a waste, loser and hateful woman. MOVE ON!!!
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************There is no revenge so complete as forgiveness.******************
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I hear women complaining all the time their men cheated and they don't know why . Get a F**king clue woman if you don't put out someone else will.If you treat him bad at home there is another woman who will treat him like a king. BTW I am a woman I please my man and he comes home.
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Two years is a looong time to make somebody's life hellish every day out of revenge, especially since you say you can't and won't forgive him. You should leave. Or he should leave. Your marriage is beyond over.
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I can only imagine how much of a shrew the OP is. Maybe if she gave him some on occasion, he wouldn't have had to cheat.
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suck the schnauzer
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Either for give and forget or end it ! I would not still be with you and such ill feeling if it were me ! Please try !!
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you bring more sorrow on yourself then he ever gave you.
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wow. how sad for both parties. get over it.
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Get over it. He probably cheated because you turned into a fat cow. Get your fat ass to a gym and then bed him.
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no, keep doing it. wallow in the anger.
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You really want to get back at him?Stop giving him Blowjobs, it works.
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TYPICAL HATEFUL ASS WOMAN... ITS BITCHES LIKE YOU WHO GIVE WOMEN A BAD NAME. DIE!
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^hI. yOU'RE KINDA CUTE. hANG OUT HERE MUCH?op__ dOES IT MAKE YOU FEEL BETTER? rEALLY?
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AND BEFORE HE CHEATED...HOW OFTEN DID YOU VOICE APPRECIATION FOR YOUR HUSBAND? HOW OFTEN DID YOU FOCUS ON WHAT WAS GOOD IN HIM EACH DAY...AND THEN TELL HIM? HOW SILLY TO WONDER WHY THE OTHER GOES SOMEWHERE ELSE TO FIND PEACE AND VALIDATION AS A HUMAN BEING.
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Either get past it or send him packing. Holding it over his head this long makes you the unstable person.
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