You sound like a blooming idiot.
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^^^ They sure do. The Op realizes what they are doing, knows what the outcome will be with friends, and still acts like an idiot.
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It's called Borderline Personality Disorder.
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^Agree. If you're behaving this way to your so-called friends, you don't think of them as friends. And you aren't sensitive, never mind covering it up! They SHOULD leave you.
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OP: I'm not abusive or cruel or anything like that! It's more like...I guess playing hard to get constantly, it works.I'm just afraid one day they'll decide I'm not worth it.
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hey, op, if they are truly your friends, they will accept you any which way you are! just a thought
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ya know, try to be yourself once in while, your friends know your not really like that. are you a guy or girl
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OP: girl, and it's like that with everyone...guys I date, my friends...the only people I'm legit with are my best friend and my sister.
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Agree with 6^. Borderline Personality Disorder.They do what "works" to people all the time. Eventually, even supportive friends get tired of being played over and over to serve whatever low self-esteem issues you have.
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they will never leave! we love you wackado!
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^stfu, leave her alone you sociopath, u r u know....
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i used to talk to girl that was the same way... it does get old and "playing" hard to get only goes so far eventually people will get tired of it... i dont know what issues you have but you need to work through them and quit pushing people away it is very unhealthy... I know the girl i used to talk to had issues of letting people get close to her b/c she was date raped... we got REALLY close then out of the blue she just up and quit talking to me...
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2^ yeah, but it's not clinical. sheesh
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BOO HOO
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quit being fake and be yourself why is that so hard for people to do?!?!?!?!?!?!
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Apparently Chris Cornell among others had it wrong. To be yourself is not ALL that you can do. Your friends still being around means they likely enjoy the verbal abuse. You know some of them do want to be abused by you.
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Hey, OP, I completely understand. I did the same thing myself for YEARS. Works good, doesn't it? you think you are keeping yourself ( your feelings) "safe" but if you look deep inside you will see that you still ARE being hurt, you DO still feel pain.....when you realize you really DON'T have friends. It's a sharp double edge sword isn't it? It's good not to worry that your "friends" can't hurt you but goddamn how it hurts to not have friends! You're NOT crazy but if you want to fix this, get therapy. I did. I have friends now and I'm no longer afraid. Sending good thoughts and positive energy your way.
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