The real you has not died. You just can't see past the walls you have built. Get away from this individual and you will see the sunshine again
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She (or he) will never be happy if their happiness relies so much on you and how much of yourself you give. And trust me, once they've reduced you to a shell (with your consent of course) they will still try to take more and make you "fit" their vision. Run friend!
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No, that is BS. You are still there. You come first. Fix yourself and life will get better in everyway! Take care of "You".
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Happiness comes from within. Everyone is responsible for their own state of mind. Take care of yourself, you are most important.
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Hold up, bucko! You're dead inside yet you give everything you are? How is getting everything a dead man has to give going to make anybody happy?
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I take if from your secret that this person is *still* not happy, despite your giving up everything, including the real you. If you stay, your future is pretty bleak--depression, anxiety, aged before your time. Make a new choice and *you* will be happy!
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How long shall we play the martyr?
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^...before you do something about this state of eternal unhappiness and leave this relationship?
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If the relationship has made you lose sight of yourself and you have given all you had to give. Till you feel dead inside then give up the person who asks too much and gives nothing in return . Then find the person you were before and be happy again . Life is too damn short to live like that . Good Luck to you friend.
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Wa ah oh wah oh I, I just died in your arms tonight. ;)
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How long have you been dead inside?
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15 yrs.
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^Then you really, really do have a problem. 15 years is a loooong time to be someone you are not. You've been worn down.
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You have no idea...I feel trapped.
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Makes me want to destroy mountain lion traps.
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Jean-Claude got out of his mess (not unscathed) so you can too!! Be free, be happy. Don't let the trap close forever. Talk to someone, ask your friends to help you.
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If you can't walk for whatever reason then block it out the best you can and make somewhat of a new life outside of this uncaring a** ****. You will find at least a little peace and the trapped feeling will be less. It can be done.
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quit WHINING LIKE A BITCH
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Give us an idea why you are trapped. Married? Married with kids? Gay/straight or straight/gay? Tied up in the basement or handcuffed to the radiator? Depressed beyond recovery?
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you sound like someone i know, i think they are like you, find a friend that will love you on the side. the kisses alone will make you feel special,well because i am sure you are, trust me. ;)
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I think my boyfriend posted this....
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I am the OP. Years of marriage, kids, social responsibility, etc. All of those bind me to this nightmare. The pain caused by walking away would hurt more people than it would spare me of my own. I've stayed faithful, and have considered the FWB idea, however, nothing skeletons have a way of stinking even while in the closet. I'll deal, like I have for so long. My only repreive is that of the hope that she walks away.
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So you are content to remain with a soul-sucking individual. It's wonderful that you aren't inclined to do the easy thing and cheat. But really, it sounds like you have a better chance if you do the walking. She will probably cling to her ownership of you, for however long you feel worn down. This is no way to live.
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2^ You think they don't know, that they don't feel what you project? You're already hurting everybody around you by not being yourself, by allowing yourself to be shackled by the fear of doing something you're already doing.
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you can give me everything....i will give back
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are your guns as big as his? i'll make you happy:)
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^I'm the OP
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^who is I'm? that is some actor but i don't know his name. but those arms, they look like my lovers ;)
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My left eye is tearing up.
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^^^I'm the OP, and my guns are actually bigger than this. Oh, and to prove I am the OP, I will remove the top three comments right now...
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so op, did you have good weekend?
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Eh, s'ok.
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I just wanted to know what jean claude van damme has to do with your post? Not that there's anything wrong with him. He's pretty awesome.
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He has nothing to do with my post. The picture just seemd to relay the way I feel. My weekend could have been a lot better. Tired of not being wanted sexually anymore...that's the worst part of the whole thing.
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^but your guns are bigger than Jean's? i will have you. i am on a quest for arms like that to hold me every night! :)how tall are you
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5'3" lotta love
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I'm 6' tall. And for real...are you?
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