I did the same thing to my ex. I knew I did not want to keep living with her. But the pain of leaving was even greater. Eventually we married and now we are divorced. The same is going to happen to you if you do not leave now
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^ op hereWe are already married. Every time he comes home crying and promising me he won't ever do it again. Next time I will let him go without a fight. I just can't keep doing this.
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He's weak, let him suffer outside.
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why dont you be open and honest and tell him what you just told the world on the internet. just tell him how it makes you feel and that you will not tolerate it anymore.
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Talk it out!
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^you post the same solution over and over b****. Get over yourself!
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Can't help but be solutions oriented. Gotta go with the time-tested solutions first.
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Third time should have been the charm. Leave for good. Before he does.
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I think he is in the same situation as the guy in the first post. he does not want to be with you anymore, but the pain of leaving is even worse.
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Hey, if it works, don't change it you moron.
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If you cannot leave, try an extramaritial affair. You will realize just how unhappy you have been when you have someone to bring out your passion. I know, I was in your situation. Google some of the free sites online.
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^^^I agree with the last post. I had an affair when my marriage was broken. I met a married woman online from a site geared specifically for extra-maritial affairs. It is based in Canada, just so you will know how to find that site from one of the online search engines. That affair was incredible!. When your home life is in the gutter, an affair will make you feel like a million dollars. Provided that you can deal with the possibility of guilt from the moral issues. I was while setting things up. Once we ment and eventually slept together, damn, it was just the most emotionally exhilerating thing to feel some passion for a change. Eventually, I put my things in order and filed for divorce. I have never been happier.If I could, I would date another married woman. The secret planning of our rendevous places, stealing passion when we could, and secretly planning our next get-together was just an awesome experience all around.
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^^^Man, I'm with you on that one. My affair was as exciting as you described. There is nothing like getting your brains f***ed inside out after years of emotional turmoil. Each time we slept together you would have thought the guy I dated was having sex with me for the last time. LOL
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^^I hear you sister. My marriage was in shambles and just an emotional cesspool. But I could not leave due to finances. So, I had an affair with a guy that put it on me like no other guy had. I swear, there were times when I would get wet thinking about him when I was in that miserable home with my husband. It is true what the earlier poster said about the emotional pleasure you have when you are so unhappy at home.
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LOLsluts
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^I agree. It sickens me. I won't be cheating on my husband. I'd just leave like a sensible person.
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^^^Some of us are in a situation where we cannot leave. So, we stay and find solice in the arms of someone else. I can tell you when you are in the situation, where you are surrounded my misery, there is a sense of elation when you find yourself in the middle of passion with someone else. It is like being set free for a few hours so your heart can feel again. I recommend it to anyone in a bad marriage. I really do.
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^^I'd say that I'm in a situation that I cannot leave just yet, but I'm not gonna be cheating. Be more careful about who you f***ing give yourself to. Don't wear the slut uniform as if it's a f***ing badge of honor. The things that are going on in my marriage can't be changed, but I can make arrangements to break free. I'm committed to being happy and it's not with him, so I'm-doing what I can to make it happen someday soon, and it's working for me. I'll never have to see him unless he's picking up his child. That's what a rational adult/nonslut would do. I won't cheat, I'll escape.
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OP here I don't think cheating is the right way for me. I want to do everything I can to make it work. I owe that to myself and to my husband. If things do fall apart I will at least know I gave it my all. My morals are too strong for me to even tolerate cheating.
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2 up ^^^Morals? Slut? According to whose priciples? Society? Let's face it. Morality is established in a society to keep order. Not because it is "the right thing to do". The problem with people like you is that you accept what is considered normal which is determined by some esoteric elitists who set the standard for the rest of us. You want to call the 3rd poster up a slut. Yet, you know that for men it is a badge of honor to bag as many women as possible without any slut titles attached to them. Why is that? Because men control the world and set the standards throughout civilization. If woman controlled everything throughout the ages, women would be bagging men and men would be called sluts in their society for doing the same thing as the woman.
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^^^ Wow! You go. You rock too!
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^^^2 up and 4 up..... 2 up first: Women like you is why the rest of the women in this country have equal rights. 4 up: Women with your attitude is why women around the world wear burkas and think it is ok and their duty.
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I don't like how some of you refer to extramarital affairs as if they were extracurricular activities in school. Your not in Band or playing Basketball, your cheating. That is low and unforgivable. If you want to break free of your marriage, than get a divorce don't cheat.
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