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my and my gf had a huge fight weeks ago broke up she moved barley talks to me now i miss her i leave a key for her every night i'm pathetic

my and my gf had a huge fight weeks ago broke up she moved barley talks to me now i miss her i leave a key for her every night i'm pathetic

 
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You need to give her some space, let her know you love her and want to work it out but your not gonna become a stalker, after you say that to her then leave it up to her. If she doesn't come back then you know it wasn't meant to be and you need to accept it and move on.
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Well, we do not know what the fight was about but I would almost bet that she will come looking for you after she cools off. She will miss you as you miss her. If you love her, tell her how much and let things simply cool off for a while. In the meantime, try and figure out what the two of you both did to start this up.
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im the original poster. iv told her how much i love her and miss her and we fought over her partying ways and how i was feeling unloved now she wont answer my texts and just wont give me the time of day. she sez she wants to fix it but just wont talk to me or spend time with me. Slowly im accepting its over and shes not comming back but it tears me up inside
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You're a f***ing loser!
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^Only if he is LISTENING to the barley that is talking to him now...
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I think the Barly was doing some typing too.
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Can Barley use punctuation?!
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Barley is a healthy grain sometimes used to make porridge.
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? The hops is just for the bitter flavor, you're drinking barley.
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You are not listing. I said give her space. She will come back.
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Dude, she's not coming back. Listen to the whispering grains. Get past it.
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Pull off the track, Pal the race is over and you are the winner . Just Beat it and save your money !
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im the op 3^ iv given her space and i know shes not coming back and i can accept that i dont want false hope or to be told she will when i know she wont im working on getting past this one day at a time. you cant force someone to be with you
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^Good for you, and best of luck.
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You said in your own words.... "She wants to fix it". She will come around. Most of the time they do come back. Next time, lick her really good and don't ask for anything in return. See what happens.
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im the op she said ''she wants to fix it'' but in reality she dont want to hurt me by telling me its over and she wants me to get over her like im pritty sure shes getting over me thats y she wont talk to me or hang out with me and makes no effort at all into fixing it. we have been apart for over 2 months. iv given her time,space told her how much i love her how much i miss her how much i want to fix it and move on with her so if she was goign to comeback or fix it we would be working on it and that hasnt happend so im accepting its over one day at a time.
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Again, you must be young. You really do not know women.
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im op im 21 and have been with her for 3 years i know her pretty well if someone knows how women work and how all this means shes coming back then let me know other wise im looking at her actions not her words sry that's how i see it
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Dude, actions are more a male thing, words are more a woman thing. It sucks I know, but that's life. You should stop trying to talk to her and instead make some uber-romantic and active gesture of your devotion. Leaving a key for her every night IS pathetic.
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im the op i would do the uber romantic thing but the problem is she wont talk to me. and even if she would we've been together so long im pritty much outta ideas iv done the candle dinners the movies all that any women out there got any ideas on what you would want a bf to do to win u back or show you there love for you yes i agree a key is pathetic i just want her back i cant function with out her
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you should eat the vag. She'll take you back. ;)
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Ha. I knew you were just a kid. No, you do not understand women at all. She will come back when you leave her alone and back off! Stop acting weak and helpless. Let her wonder what you are doing. She will miss you (I don't know why from the way you are acting like a kid) When she comes back, read up and learn how to lick her really really good and once again, cut out the BS.
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^ Prolly best to listen to this one, dear op, and not me. I had a redhead pissed at me once. Wrote her a love poem, picked a flower, and had a big slow black guy deliver it, cause I knew he would just smile no matter what her intial response was. There was already a cutesy message waiting when i got back home.
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She will come around. Do you want to bet on it? Now go find something else to do until she comes back. Learn about women and don't forget to lick when she comes home.
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im the op i would much rather plan and expect the worse right now and i have left her alone im not bugging her everyday about this im not a stalker or creep. and for the record the sex wasn't a problem. and im not acting weak and helpless. if shes gunna sit there and tell me she loves me and sez she just wants to be friends for a lil bit when i call/text her she ignores me. i just have this feeling that shes leading me on just to brake me later or whatever but everyones been somewhat helpful
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^Why would you be with someone you think is just leading you on in order to break you? You wouldn't. Why would she invest herself in breaking you? She wouldn't. That's your insecurity talking, so let it go.
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Listen kid, we have had enough. Use a period after you post once in a while and nobody asked you about the sex crap. You talk on and on about the same drama. Go find something to keep you busy and if you cut out the baby crap, maybe, she will come around. However, after hearing you talk, I would only wonder why.... We also know that you did not lick her like you should have.
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Yea kid, don't comment and b**** and moan until the stupid girl comes back. Then you can b**** and moan because the "b****" came back!
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Grow a backbone and stop with the freakin whining already! We've all been dunped before. It's just a part of life, kid. Grow up, salvage what little dignity you have left and move on. She's already got a pussy, she doesnt need another one!
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Did the b**** come back yet?
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No! I told you she wouldn't.
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Wait! Somebody's knocking at the door now!
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