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Do I really have such a hard time with men because my dad was a pedophile? It's so hard to open up to the man I love. Fuck you dad. I have forgiven you tho.....

Do I really have such a hard time with men because my dad was a pedophile? It's so hard to open up to the man I love. Fuck you dad. I have forgiven you tho.....

 
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You haven't forgiven him at all. He is destroying your life from the inside. Get into some therapy before he completely kills you.
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just try and do what makes you happy. time heals all and if the man you love proves it, you will open up. good luck
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^What the f*** did this person say? Dislexic much?
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^It's a continuing joke from a few posts back. And yes, OP, really that's why. Start talking, because he can't hurt you anymore.
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You do not have to feel obligated to tell anyone about your past. Just make the best of the present. But you need an 'aw f*** it" attitude about your past. That will be much better than talking about it to someone who may hold it against you latter or use it as a reason to leave you
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4^ Obligated? Who said anything about obligation? You talk about it with someone, because they have a different POV, because it widens yours to share theirs. As for the aw f*** it attitude...the book says, you may be through with the past, but the past ain't through with you. Obviously true in this poster's case. As for someone holding it against you or leaving you...do you really want someone in your life who would do either? A relationship without trust ain't worth it.
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OP: The only good thing that came from him molesting me is I really give great head to my husband. I also am pretty good at anal too!
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You twisted, sister. Always look on the bright side!
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My first cousin was sexually molested by her father and she went into counceling. She got better but she still has problems. I'm sorry this happened to you.
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^Does your cousin have big titties?
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^I have huge f***ing titties. You wanna look??? Ok, but just this once or my boyfriend will get mad. Google Mel's bit titties.
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not sure if "f*** you dad" was the right thing to say but glad to hear ur wonderful at giving oral :O
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"I forgive him, but f*** him" is a pretty incongruent statement. When you truly forgive, you will experience freedom like youve never known, and will finally be able to be close to men. Get some counseling... It really helps. God bless you
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