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My cousin has breast cancer and wont seek treatment.i'm the only one who knows and i can't make her chance her mind...i feel like i'm helping dig,her grave.

My cousin has breast cancer and wont seek treatment.i'm the only one who knows and i can't make her chance her mind...i feel like i'm helping dig,her grave.

 
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You are not helping her dig her grave--the decision is hers. Some people feel the treatment is worse than the disease, depending on the stage of cancer. Be supportive and loving. That is how to help.
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Your Job is to help her bere this burden, and support her decision. Keep her secret, and let her go unto her reward with dignity
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she is making the right choice for herself, please respect that!
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that is sad i would feel like you do too. Breast cancer has a huge survival rate...sad that she is too depressed to see that.
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^maybe it's stage four and she doesnt want the last few months she has left to be spent sitting in a hospital injecting herself with poison....if i had cancer i'm not sure i would treat it either. after seeing what my family members have gone through the treatments are by far the worst part of cancer, not the cancer itself.
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Don't fret decisions that aren't yours to make. Tell her what you think and leave it at that.
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It doesnt matter if she gets mad and never speaks to you again, it will be worth it if you save her life and she will thank you for it later.
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Drug the stupid b**** and get her help because she is not thinking in her right of mind. She will thank you later and so will alot of others.... Unless she really is a b****....
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^being a "bItch" has nothing to do with her decision not to get treatment. people have the RIGHT to chose whether or not they want to pursue chemo and radiation or not....and there are no guarantee's that she would even have a chance anyway. if the cancer has already reached her lymphatic system she might as well enjoy the last few months she has left feeling like a whole person instead of poisoning herself until her hair falls out and she throws up 10 times a day and loses so much weight she looks like a skeleton. since none of us know why she wants to be left alone so why judge???
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Oh thank you doctor.... You are right again. Stupid ass.
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No, she is not thinking of others. Greedy b****.
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Lymph cancer sucks. Shit hurts with or without treatments.
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^^^i have taken care of more people with cancer than you ever will asshat.
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^I can't even begin to count the number of people I've asshatted, so what the f*** you talkin bout, Willis?
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Oh really?? You did what??
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Yea, just what did you do pal?
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Quiet now, right Mister Man?
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I've asshatted untold hundreds. Is that what you wanted to hear?
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What is it you are trying to spell?
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If I knew how to spell it I'd be spelling it right, right, dumb dictionaries.
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So what does it mean? What did you do. Tell everyone....
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The right coice? Are you kidding? The right choice is to do everything and anything to recover and live again.
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This is the most important decision this woman will ever make. And the decision is hers. Support her and love her with whatever she chooses to do. I believe chemo and radiation and surgery just prolong life.....and that most cancer comes back. It is the most horrible disease. I truly don't know if I would get treatment if I got it. But I sure wouldn't won't others telling me what to do. Good luck and stand by your friend. She will need you.
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Western medicine has no explanation for cancer, and all it treats is cancer. Most cancer does come back, or it would if those in remission didn't die of later complications directly tied to dosing with toxic chemicals. It's akin to pouring vinegar on a weed and expecting the blueberry next to it to be better off.
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Fuck it. Just take her out back and shoot the dumb b****!
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What are the stages?
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