You must have undisputed proof beyond any sense of doubt. Copy the conversations and dates. When you have built a solid case with a load of absolute evidence, confront him and tell him how you found out. At that point, how you obtained the evidence is irrelevant. Then tell him to Fuck off and never date him again. If you continue seeing him you will never fully trust him ever again. That is no way to live your life. Find someone who deserves you, honey.
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Maybe he's texting the world to tell them just how unoriginal you are? For the love of god and all that is good get a fu.cking clue and use any one of the 178 gazillion images that have been uploaded. Just fu.cking one, please.
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Have you ever thought it might be you that has issues?
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the abv two posters are idiots. I am with the 1st comment. If he is being inappropriate, to hell with him. He is one step away from cheating. Tell him to f*** off before he does. If you are in a committed relationship, your phone calls, texts and computer usage is OPEN ACCESS TO YOUR PARTNER...PERIOD. If that is not acceptable to someone, they hiding something. Good Luck.
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Open access?? What are you stupid? It's not a matter of cheating, it's a matter of respect, now stay off my phone jerkoff.
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^^^Respect goes both ways, pal. If it looks like a duck, quacks like a duck, and smells like a duck, it is probably a duck. I knbow it is cliche, but it is true.
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Do what any crazy jealous gf would do.Get the numbers and addresses of the women and call them yourself! Might as well stalk and violate their privacy too.
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There's nothing wrong about being curious about the person you've pledged to share your life with...but your bf? Honestly, trust or dump.
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no. do it. then, kill his cat. that'll fix him
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if he wont let you look at his phone and you are his girl theres a problem.
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Wait...he won't let you look at his phone? That's weird.
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I do the same thing to my husband and he has never betrayed me, but people in th e past have so I keep and eye on him..Im scared of the day I actually find something bc I wont be able to say anything BC i shouldnt been looking anyways..
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again people, there is no reason for privacy in a marriage. WTF could you possibly need to keep private and share with some girl...and not your wife? The only time I have EVER kept ANYTHING from my spouse is when I was doing something inappropriate. Lets not bullshit each other, if you need "privacy" you are doing something your partner would not approve of. Don't kid yourself. Grow up and don't give your self to someone if you feel its necessary to keep some things "private".
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You can't. You're insecure and if you can't handle your own jealousy, maybe you should let him go.
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^2 Does your spouse know you are on the secrets forum?? You sound way too self-righteous to be giving bizarre lectures like "there is no reason for privacy in a marriage".
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yes my spouse knows I am in the secrets forum, yes I am self-righteous...especially if self-righteous means, I tell it like it is, and live my life accordingly. Good luck living in a relationship/marriage that is anything different from what I described above. Your welcome! ------Mrs. High and Mighty out-
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^No, that is not what self-righteous means.
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It is what righteous means though, and righteous is good.
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Yes, some privacy in a marrage is good. You are wrong dickhead. Your post is stupid.
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You should confront him about it because whether he is cheating or not he deserves to know that you TOTALLY INVADED HIS PRIVACY. Not cool dude.
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Mind your own business and quit being nosey.If you are just friends and not lovers, you're not really t o g e t h e r.Quit doing it.
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