r u a boy or a girl?
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kids do stupid things. forgive them, forgive self.
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my baby sitter molested me all the time...I made her stop when I turned 46 !!
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Confess to your clergy and never to one that will judge you... Forgive yourself.
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He is the one with issues, let it go
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As long as you know your not...
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Thank you mam
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how old are you now?
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mmm...the bad girl. :)
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know my not?
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i'm a girl. i'm now 19. i was placed in foster care when i was 16 and he had to stay home. my dad and step mom hate me. they always have. my brother told them about it, seeing it as an opportunity to make my life worse than it was. i buried this terrible memory for years. when i was 17, my social worker came to me and said my half brother had told and asked if it was true. i instantly cried. and i could not stop crying for 3 days. he is the one who took my virginity (although i've never admitted it to myself). he's the one who came into my bed. he's the one who got ontop of me. he's the one who told me not to say anything or he would cut my throat in my sleep. it's because of him, i have had sex with so many other men to get this terrible memory out of my mind and body. i have slept with 24 different guys. and i cannot for the life of me, get this away.. so i have stopped being so slutty. i think about suicide often and always have. but i have my son to think about now.. i can't leave him here alone..
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you know what? as a matter of fact- i went up to the university yesterday and registered for the spring semester. I will not give my son up for adoption. i am not quite as unstable as you may think. i'm past the bullshit and i'm moving on with my life to better myself not only for me, but for my son. i have stopped having sex. i am not in a relationship. i am living alone with my son. i am working on finding a job and getting a few things fixed on my car. i think i'm doing much much better. this site has lifted such a weight off my shoulders. it has made me feel lighter and better about myself. i will use this site from now on to get things off my chest.
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^ Let the past be the past.. Rise above all this CRAP for you and your son. Oh by the way, don't pay attention to ^3 he decided to come in here and spread his hatred everywhere. In reality he nothing more than an imbecil.
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op, when you get overwhelmed just keep reminding yourself that you are an adult, that you are safe, and that you are in charge of your own life!!! use your past as motivation to make you and your child's future better.....and trust me when i say (from experience) that forgiveness is important, not for them but for you! once you let it go from your heart YOU will feel better, so dont wait!
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Kids will experiment. Please don't be mad at yourself. I remember kissing my first cousin... We were just young and didn't understand. We are just human. Human's make mistakes. I love the comment above mine that talks about forgiveness. This is a major key.
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Man, I read all the comments and this is way deeper than I first thought. Hang in there and take care of your son. Kids will be kids but this goes far beyond that. Forgive yourself and be a good example for your son.It's never too late for a fresh start.
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This site has helped many of us. That's why we keep coming back. Glad...so glad to hear of your progress and that you are moving on in a positive direction. I like it that you said you weren't even dating now. That is a good thing,,,,focus on your son and yourself.
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Thank you everyone fo the support and the positive comments. It really means something to know that there are people out there i don't even know who are trying to encourage me. i appreciate everything. thank you all so much!
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"Screwing for virginity, is like fighting for peace!"
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