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i wish i had someone to sleep next to me...i miss it so much but i cant let myself get hurt again

i wish i had someone to sleep next to me...i miss it so much but i cant let myself get hurt again

 
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When you err on the side of caution and keep your walls up in fear of getting hurt... you miss life. "Life's a journey not a destination"-Aerosmith
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I wish I had someone next to me at night too. I am ready for the journey but no one else is. Internet dating is a dreadful way to meet people. Friends know I am single no one has set me up on a date. I have asked people out only to discovered they are married or have had so much of a bad experience, they no longer trust the opposite sex.
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I can relate to what your shared. I am a woman and have almost lost faith that I will find another good man to have a real relationship with. I miss the whole couple experience. But like the OP, I have been lied to and cheated on and find it very hard to trust. Every now and then I stick my head out usually on the internet dating sites. It seems I meet men fairly easily but they won't more too fast than I am willing to give. I want real MAGIC, I want to be courted, I want to wait for the sex until we have established a real relationship. I'm not giving up and this site helps me realize that I just need to keep trying. Once you've been hurt, it's hard to stick your head back out. But as a smart former post a fews lines up, you miss life if you err on the side of caution and keeps your walls up in fear of getting hurt. That's me. Anyone know of a adult (late 50's 60's) dating site that is decent and has potential to work. I stay so busy and want to make time for a special man that I can love and pamper for the years to come. And I need love and pampering too.Any ideas ?
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I am a cheating liar, and I am looking for someone like you
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^^2 up. Try a free dating site from a search engine that pertains to "fishing". You'll know what I mean when you see it. I have met some nice people on there. Otherwise, you could drop your routine and try finding a man who is willing to swing.
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You miss someone hogging the bed? Snoring in your face? Farting and stinking up the room? Please.. I would LOVE my own room with my own bed!
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^All that stuff is part of the deal, and yeah, I miss it.
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To the OP: The reason why us good guys are so hard to find is because we've gotten burned so much by women who start out sounding just like you do, no offense. Just being honest here...
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Grow the f*** up
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instead of closing yourself up, open the doors. but LEARN from your mistakes. you will always be lonely if you dont let yourself jump. sometimes you'll fall and break your face. other times, you just might fly.......but you wont know unless you quit being a baby and open yourself up.
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There are plenty of homeless people looking for somewhere to sleep.
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^Then by all means...open your home and your bed...
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You like being farted on???
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^Goes great with a big ol mornin smooch!
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I used to be a decent guy, but my cheating whore ex wife has taken care of that. Now I do use women and refuse to get to close or commit. Clearly just way to expensive for us guys.
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Just tell them you'll do them again in the morning, and they'll stay all night!
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Look Men and Women can both be dicks. I've been cheated on twice, but I have fought to not be the bitter person who blames the complete opposite sex, because of a few a** ****s out there...it's hard I know. I've been single for almost four years now. I am intellegent, and from what my friends tell me, hot! And I get lonely too and wish to snuggle and trust and be loved...There are alot of us Men and Women in the same boat. Just know that the Universe truly wants to provide for you. take a few minutes every day and just allow yourself an openess that there is someone out there ready to love you! In your minds eye actually see the Future you with your loved one...just a thought.
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^ you have a really great attitude. I hope you find that special someone who treats you great.
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^ thanks ~K
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I want to sleep with you too Tara
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