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I am a drunk, a failure and a loser.  You'd be better off with someone else because I could never provide for you or the child you want to have.  I am sorry!

I am a drunk, a failure and a loser. You'd be better off with someone else because I could never provide for you or the child you want to have. I am sorry!

 
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the fact that you can admit this means there is actually some hope for you. You are admitting you are selfish and an escape artist. Now instead of wallowing or keeping this a secret, do the right thing and let this person go while you start taking responsibility for yourself. Doing so will give you more confidence and respect for yourself and others. You have a choice. Stop drinking and face your life. You can do it.
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^oh,BTW check back with me after the next semester starts so I can expand on my "help" via pages 15-33. Do you like apples? How do you like dem apples?
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admission does not mean hope - first hand knowledge there. but at least you don't have to ruin your partner's life too, or bring any kids into this. leave this person, it's the kindest thing you can do for them. as for your life, your choice - you have to decide if you want better, or easier.
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I think the nipa hut in the pic is a pretty cool place to live. Maybe it is not you. It could be that you just have a high-maintainence woman.
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Don't be so harsh on yourself. Let me buy you a drink and we then we can talk.
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easy way out
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he is a loser....he just wants you to do the "dirty work" of ending it. Find a dude with balls !!
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^ agreed! If you aren't committed to them for the long haul be a man or woman and cut them loose already. If you love them then you'll be happy for them when they find someone who can take care of them.
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^ also agreed with you.
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Sounds like someone just plain WANTS OUT.
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FAIL
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is this gilligans condo?
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maybe we should prance over to mamby pamby land and find your self confidence....
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ya jack wagon! ............. cry baby
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this is my rifle, this is my gun
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^^^This is for fighting. This is for fun
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Please just know that life does go on and if you think that you can be the man you know that can provide for a family..then go be him! The choice is yours. You can go straight to happiness or detour through lonely drunkville and end up a LOSER. Either way...Life will go on and she could be the mother of a very happy baby! Be well.
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WHY DOES PRIVATE SNOWBALL HAVE THAT RIFLE???
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Instead of being defeated by your problems and running away, why don't you use your current relationship as an opportunity to change? You have complete control over your own life and choices, so just start making some better ones. If you feel you can't change for you, do it for the person you care about.
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hey, i will come join you on gilligan's island and we can be losers together!
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2^ That is by far the best comment that has been made on this post. Anyone is capable of change if they really want it. You never know, the other person might just be supportive and want to stand by you.
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I wish MY dad said that 45 years ago.
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I'm running away...from these a** **** bullies that keep bringing me down.
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