The fact that you're still talking about him only shows that you're still hung up on him.
|
| Remove this stupid comment |
|
No...she is not hung up on it!! OMG I wasted 7 years married to a loser too! I am NOT hung up on him and thank the heavens that I am out of his life...
BUT at times I still think SHIT 7 years I gave to that bastard...it's still a chapter of her life..and she can't just erase it...
|
| Remove this stupid comment |
|
Isn't that what drugs and alcohol are for? ;o)
|
| Remove this stupid comment |
|
Well, it could have been 16 years like mine was. Count your blessings. The best is yet to come!
|
| Remove this stupid comment |
|
Hear hear! I am finally getting a divorce after 20 years of marriage with over half of that time that sucked. Told myself to stay for the kids sake but at 12 years old it may be more damaging to stay. Thought I could last till my son was 18 but guess not.
|
| Remove this stupid comment |
|
Why did you stay so long?
|
| Remove this stupid comment |
|
b****
|
| Remove this stupid comment |
|
me too.....and the only reason i even think of him is cuz he still causes RAFT thru my precious kids!!! So think of that. Best thing i ever did was get the loser outta my life.
|
| Remove this stupid comment |
|
What part of 'for better or worse' didn't you understand? Wasn't there any indication at all that he was a loser beforehand? And if not, maybe 'you' made him into a miserable loser. Ouch! What else would explain it: while dating he was Mr. Wonderful. After 7 years with you he's a schmo. Where and when did it go wrong? These are all hypothetical, but if you answer these questions I maybe able to make a judgment (though lord knows you didn't ask for one).
|
| Remove this stupid comment |
|
Oh, like you're some great catch!
|
| Remove this stupid comment |
|
Well he left me, I stayed because I loved him. I would've never left, if he didn't we would still be together, and I would still have to take pills to sleep at night and for depression. I guess some people like to suffer. f'ed up huh?
|
| Remove this stupid comment |
|
Deb, I didn't know you liked this website too. Come back to me. I can change. I swear.
|
| Remove this stupid comment |
|
Move on.
|
| Remove this stupid comment |
|
Damn...this sounds JUST like me except it was 4 years and I don't pity him at all. Karma is a b****
|
| Remove this stupid comment |
|
i wasted 8 years and my fertility waiting for him to wake up and marry me. now I am so glad it never happened, A blessing in disguise really,but i will always hate myself for not walking away sooner while I could have had children.
|
| Remove this stupid comment |
|
r u norma?????
|
| Remove this stupid comment |
|
ever stop and think that maybe YOU had something to do with him being misreable? my ex told me she'd leave me if i ever had to go away for job training, so, i stuck around. i didn't want to lose her. a few years later, she left me because i didn't have a good enough job for her. listening to her wrecked my life
|
| Remove this stupid comment |
|
I agree, he was probably a miserable "loser" because of her!!!
He's probably the guy that invented divorce parties!
|
| Remove this stupid comment |
|
Save the Children....Not the Marriage
|
| Remove this stupid comment |
|
only a sick bastard would think its the womans fault, no its not always the man, but f*** 99% of the time guess what his daddy hit him so he has to hit something and your the closest thing you stay because you think he will see how much you love him, how you just want his love in return, you stay because you feel like quitting on him is not a option, its when he kicks you on your ass like his dad did to his mom that you realize hey maybe he is unable to love period! so you pick up what pieces of your life are left and begin to fill the gaps that are left. and when you see him in your sons face you hold it in till night fall. you never never forget the man you had your children with you just simply make it day to day knowing its noones fault not his not yours its just the way it had to be
|
| Remove this stupid comment |
|
FINALLY, someone that actually leaves a f***ing relationship that doesnt make them happy! How f***ing defficult does it have to be people??
|
| Remove this stupid comment |
|
Hey its life, shit happens. I can tell you from my experience in this big picture of life that when romance goes bad its very hard to bring it back. Why did he leave you?
|
| Remove this stupid comment |
|
