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I love my wife, but I'm starting to despise her passive controlling behavior, and seems most women are doing that now days.

I love my wife, but I'm starting to despise her passive controlling behavior, and seems most women are doing that now days.

 
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She would not have to be passive controlling if she felt safe and free to active in controlling and makking decisions that affect her life. So many men STILL act as if their way is the only right way of doing things instead trusting that women are smart and capable enough to share in the control mutually.
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^ you are really full of it. Some people are passively controlling no matter what you do. Just like women to keep blaming men even though women are making progress and winning over men in nearly every area of life now. Check colleges and universities, more women in classes, more women in graduate schools on every level except computer science . That means more women doctors, lawyers, Phds, MBAs everything. How much more do women need before they STOP blaming men?
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No OP, "most" women are not doing that. Could it be that you just look for the ones who passively control you, because that's exactly what you want.
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most men and women...you mean. Americans are a bunch of passive agressive fools, that do not know the first thing about true communication. Trust, respect, love, sex!
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Most really are. Women control most of the job market now, they control sex, they control happiness around the home, etc. If mom ain't happy no one is happy.
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are you too immature to control your life? Please tell me you don't play video games and buy every new iphone that comes out immediately...(this applies if you are about 35 and younger, if you are older, you wanted to marry your mommy, you got her. how about you..oh, I don't know...ummmm. TELL HER YOUR CONCERNS INSTEAD OF SHARING IT ON HERE AND PLAYING A VICTIM WHEN YOU CAN CORRECT THE PROBLEM?
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Guess I'd say you're the passive one!
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I hear you brother. Its unfortunate, but true. Apparently, it used to be this way, but the other way around; however, now that the law has overcompensated in trying to make things fair, its way out of balance. I'm even wondering if equality in a marriage is even possible anymore. Materialism is to blame. Anyone willing to argue this either doesn't know what's going on or they "resemble" this behavior.I could give two "shits" about status or keeping appearances. I just want to live a comfortable life with someone who accepts me for who I am and vice-versa; not my salary, not my credit-line, and certainly not my ability to "appease" you. That isn't love and it has no place in marriage.Don't let her fool you; there are decent women out there.
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give us a couple of examples
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Blame women. Blame men. Blame Americans. Blame the Chinese. Blame Blacks. Blame Whites. Blame Mexicans. Blame Gays. Blame Politicians. Blame the dog. Blame Chevy. Blame Toyota. Blame Ford. Keep going everyone! Your stupidity is incredible! Good job! Love, Satan.
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You wife is never like that while I bang her
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Dear men, keep pretending that you didn't create passive control in women out your need to control everythingon the planet, out of your need to see yourself as the superior gender. Keep pretending that women are lucky to be able to go to college, vote, become doctors and lawyers while you STILL undermind their gender every chance you get through millions of ways but mostly through sexual exploitation (done because of your fragile egos). Keep pretending as if a balance has been achieved so you can b**** about feeling emotionally castrated instead of dealing with your own emotional impotence. Kepp pretending until all of this destroys the planet and the human race. Great work! Good job! Congrats on your huge insecurity!! love, Lucifer.
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Thousands and thousands of years...and the wheel keeps turning. There's a skip in the record...when will get out of this game. Lucifer?
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Lucifer is the bringer of light, the christian version of Prometheus.
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And the gold star goes to...
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^ 2 Look at all the freemason cointelpro agents that come here! I knew that would lure you roaches out of your holes.
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^Actually it's just something I picked up from BOC's "7 Screaming Dizbusters"...I can't stand the light! The Prometheus connection hit me in the moment of writing, maybe I was channelling Shakespeare? Or my minder sent me a signal to write that and awaken the sleeper agents? It's all myth and metaphor either way, and the hole is secure...I could have written any of these secrets and any of these comments...or not. I might not even be writing this, it could be me writing it, or even Dr.Johnny888
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^ You channel Shake his speare too? ;)
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heehaw^ thought I was alone.
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Blah blah blah. WTH is all that above. Read my orginal post. Its true, women control all sorts of crap and then want to point the fingers at us when it goes wrong. Crazy.
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^ YES x 100!
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"You ain't just whistling Dixie!"
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