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i am thinking of getting my hubby some boudoir pics for his birthday....i look like this girl, is that even sexy to a guy?

i am thinking of getting my hubby some boudoir pics for his birthday....i look like this girl, is that even sexy to a guy?

 
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Are you this girl?
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no but i look very similar, this is a model from the photographers site.
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Of course!!! I am an attractive 25 y/o size 4 and my cousin is an attractive 28 y/o size 14, let me tell you, when we go out, she is ALWAYS the first one to be approached to have a drink. As long as you take care of yourself and make sure you look like a lady you'll be fine. You most definitely can be sexy. You are as sexy as you feel. It's all about confidence
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check out the photographers portfolio with a friend whom you Really trust and get their objective opinion. Then if you do decide to do it, be ready to for what happens , good or bad. but if your already having trepidation, your gut's already telling you something. don't factor the self image part into the equation.
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even though my husband says he doesnt care i just hate how my body looks :(
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I have a few friends that do NOT like skinny girls. They think you are HOT but only if you carry yourself in a sexy way. Skinny or Big confidence is key..
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im a guy and i think its very sexy.
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If he married you, then he thinks you are sexy. It is as simple as that. From my husband's mouth, "There is no way I would have committed myself to spending the rest of my life having sex with only you if I didn't love the way you look." Your size is only a problem if you let it be a problem to you. I'm in your shoes. I am about the size of that model, and my husband is a thinner man. We have been married for almost two years now. There are days when he can't keep his hands off me. I love him for it. ;)
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I am about the size of the model in the photo as well and my husband has loved me for 23 years .It is a lack of self confidence to fear your husbands reaction to Sexy photo's of you. I am sure he will love them .
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He's your husband! He'll love them! Besides, most guys seem to like bigger girls over boney flat skeletons anyhow.
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I like bigger girls, but not to big. I call it cushion for the pushin i find it very sexy.That girl would about be my limit tho, still i bet she can be very sexy if she wants too.
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aLL the above comments are opinions I share...your husband will love the pics, and he will love you even more for having the confidence to have them done. good for you, and good for him. ;)
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ITT: Fat girls pretending to be skinny girls
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I've seen pics of big girls look good but this one highlights her cottage cheese.
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I'm a husband to a larger girl. If she had confidence in her looks and carried herself as sexy, then she would definitely be the only one I see. I still love her more than any other woman though. You know how your hubby feels, so make your decision.
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Your legs are full of curdles.
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i am a guy and i dont find that shit in the picture sexy!
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I know of a few woman that eat right go to the gym regularly the general take care of yourself crap that look like that and there is nothing they can do about it. They are very confident in who they are.
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I think the pic used was very tastefully done and if you are feeling sexy and confident and think your husband will enjoy the photos then go for it. As for the fat vs thin comments just a few things... different people are attracted to different things. Many fit people are extremely unnatractive simply necause they are soulless narcissist. Many fat people are that way because of genetics and extreme life circumstances and not necessarily because they can't or won't take care of themselves. Some people are forced to care for others who are too selfish and don't have energy left over for themselves. Finally, why does our culture hate and ridicule fat people but seem to have little problems with massive fat cars? Skewed human priorities.
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AS A STARTER, YES, BUT WE GENERALLY LIKE TO SEE PROGRESSIVELY MORE FLESH.
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Take them pictures girl! Pump yourself full of confidence before you do. Oh, you fancy huh!
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^My god look at the hail damage on your soul
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^best come back on untold secrets EVER! lol :)
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I think the Lady in the picture would have benefited from wearing thigh high stockings and a sexy gown . Thats what I do for Racy Pictures .
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What is it about thigh highs that make my heart go pitter patter? one of life's mysteries...
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When I met my boyfriend I weighed 300 pounds. I've lost over 100 now, and he said he misses "fat me" in bed sometimes. It's all about preference. If he finds you sexy, he will love the photos. That would be a great gift!
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^are you sure it's not the other way around?
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If you hate how your body looks change it...my bf thinks I am perfect the way I am size 20...but I don't feel as sexy as I want...so I am choosing to get healthy and fit...not be super skinny...I think that looks more ugly then my size but I want to be fit.
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the person in the pic is NOT ugly! she just needs to lose some weight exersize and love herself, everything else will fall into place!
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^not to be a spelling nazi or anything, but I think you mean exercise.
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Skip the pics and suck the hell out of his cock. Women over think when trying to understand men. We are very simple creatures. Suck our dick and we will be happy. Suck suck suck
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^Our collective male dicks combined create Porntron! Ejaculator of the Universe!
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2^ so true. now suck it
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Porntron battling the evil male-raping demon Anos.
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I do not understand the pic. Are those her legsor is she sitting behind a waffle iron?
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hee-haw..................hee-haw
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I think... that you are as sexy as you feel and can confidently present yourself as. I also think that the haters of larger woman are NOT worth one moment of your time. Just because they are closed minded and unable to appriciate larger women doesn't make you ANY less sexy, especially to your man. Have loads of fun with your pictures.. i did some and had a blast honestly!
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Just remember people.. Stick and stones may break bones, but WORDS can shatter a soul
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^that is so true...if only people were taught that words hurt souls when they are children...we wouldn't have as bad of a bulling problem...people seem to think people who are not just like them or perfect in their eyes...do not feel pain and that what is said and done to them does not matter...but the pain is so very real...bulling doesn't end when childhood does...it continues your whole life if you are differnt from the "norm"...what ever that may be...
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DO IT!!!! he loves u and would appreciate ANYTHING u do for him, im sure!!
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yup suckint it works (I'm a girl) it will buy me a couple days of "I get my way time" LOL The down side to it is that the more you suck it he realizes how good it is and he wants more and more.
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^not aleays true depends on the effort put foward. if a girl dont want to learn to suck it right she wont.
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poster#3 maybe your just ugly and she has bigger breasts. lol or the guys just realize her self esteam mayde lower and their chances of getting laid just went up 199% or just maybe its all the above.
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Don't waste your money on a picture. Get a gym membership.
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Every woman is beautiful!
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