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I'm tired of trying. It seems to me that being nice and doing the right things in life doesn't pay off when it comes to her.

I'm tired of trying. It seems to me that being nice and doing the right things in life doesn't pay off when it comes to her.

 
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I know how you feel. Nice guys finish last it seems. Women prefere to be shit on and lied to and treated like crap. They b**** n moan about it but then go right back to the same type of guy. When they find a good and nice guy they shit on us.
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No. Woman don't walk into a room and think,"He looks like he'd treat me like shit, I'd like to date him." So I wish guys would stop saying that.
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Stop going for girls out of your league. If you go for a girl that's obviously not into you, your just asking for whatever negativity comes your way.
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So stop trying with her and keep trying. There is someone out there who will appreciate your niceness and give it back to you mutually but you might have to be willing to compromise in other areas. Most women who are not shallow and selfish don't look like a Barbie doll.
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then shes not worth the effort sounds like
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Look, it's not that we don't like nice guys but we also want a guy who's in control. We don't want some whiny nancy boy who cries at the drop of a hat. We dont want a jerk but we want a guy who can hold the reigns while still allowing us our freedom.
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What you want is a paradox. Don't be surprised when you get it.
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2^ So, you are saying nice guys are whiny nancy boys who cry at the drop of a hat? Stay with the jerk, you idiot, and take all of the freedom you want.
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No, sorry but I don't want the guy who is 'in control'. Fuck that, I am tired of the male ego thinking it's superior and needs to lead every goodam thing on the planet. I will take a guy who can be nice over one who is in control any day. And they aren't a paradox - there are many men who are capable of balance when they choose it.
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What you want is your Daddy's dick.
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^^^This boy cracks me up. He is always coming on here and making comments like this. These little guys are the ones who always talk about sex because they do not get it. These types spend a lot of time jacking off.
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Loser. Go to Cuba...
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I had a nice guy. He was always polite and well mannered. Treated me like a lady. Walked me to my car, held the door, etc. A few months down the road he cheated on me with his ex and conned me out of $400. I'm still trying to get over him.
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I wish you'd get over me !
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Naughty/Nice. Who cares. You either have it, or you don't
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shower farts smell the worst, oh,and your mom goes to college.
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^ omg your mom goes to college! I seriously just farted in the shower when I read that. Funny funny shit. U could drink whole milk if you wanted to
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Doesn't pay when it comes to anyone.
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Here is one rule to live by: If they dress like the girl next door, treat them like the girl next door. If they dress like a lady, treat them like a lady. If the dress like a slut....well you can guess the rest.
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So you want a man that is in control but you want freedom??? WTF, how can that be. So you want someone who can take over if it's screwed up, but if it works you want it. That sort of mentatility just pisses me off. Its stupid. Can control it but allow freedom???? WTF!!!! Shit in one hand and want in the other...see which one will fill up first.
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You know what, it seems like being nice and doing the right thing doesn't pay off in most situations these days
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^ Seems true, but then you gotta ask whther a lot less people aren't trying now.
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I used to stand up for my nice guy most of the time because he didn't do it for himself in hopes that he would at least learn to stand up for himself instead he expected me to fight his battles for him. "He uncle hurt my feeeelllinngs" We broke up
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in other words you want to have everything your way
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It isn't you that is the problem. It is the women you choose. If you are serious about wanting a decent woman, sign up for a dating service. Now, here's where your (bad)luck turns around. Start sending your responses to Asian women only. Stay away from the American woman. I do not care which ethnicity they are. Don't bother with women from here. Choose a woman who is from her native Oriental country. They are very respectful of their men. But be careful. They expect the same in return.
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those flowers need Viagra....oops Vigaro
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^^lmao! that is so lame :) op, i married the nice guy and couldnt be happier! the thing is you have to stop trying to get the perfect 10 high maintenance girl and try a 6 or a 7 on for size who has a heart of gold. so many times i see nice guys in relationship with women who treat them like ShIt and the common denominator is the woman is almost ALWAYS a high maintenance bItcH. what you give up in looks (like hair extensions and fake nails)you will gain in personality and be much happier because of it :)
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Be nice and give me $100
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Woman hates Man, Man hates Woman, Man hurts Woman, Woman hurts Man, Woman gets even, Man gets even...blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. While the puppet masters pull their strings to and fro in their golden castles laighing as they go. So boring, so cliche. Except the paradox posting, yes I want a paradox. But I am a Do Me Feminist, not a frigid old hag. And before you say suck your cock...I do and am quite amazing at it. But only for Men who like Women. I didn't say love, for there are many Men and Women who proclaim their love for the opposite sex, but few rarely like them.
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You're tired of being nice? But you're a nice guy, you can't help. Trust, it would be a lot more tiring to be a different way.
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Women love nice guys but you' ve got to keep an edge to keep us interested and excited. Continue being nice and having good values, but don't let anyone take advantage of you, Learn to say NO. That one lesson in life, having the ability and guts to say NO shows your strength. Women don't like someone they can walk over. Continue being who you are which sounds like a wonderful guy. But add the choice of saying NO when you need to, That one thing is so important whether you are a man or woman...The inability to say NO prompts both men and women to lie rather than be honest.
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The truth is that most "nice guys" are really a** ****s who only play nice to get the girl. Then the real a** **** comes out. Those of us who know the tricks prefer to date the a** ****s who don't pretend to be something else.
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I'm nice because it's me. My lady loves me for it - and for telling her no, fully expecting her to exercise the same right. My lady is nice too, ya know.
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