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I'm 28 years old and I have Genital Herpes. I'm afraid I'll never have sex again and nobody will ever love me.

I'm 28 years old and I have Genital Herpes. I'm afraid I'll never have sex again and nobody will ever love me.

 
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You'll be fine. It's not really that big a deal more embarrassing than anything. That doesn't mean go tell everyone but dont beat yourself up about it either
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Always be truthful and tell someone once you have become friends enough to where you think it's leading towards sex. If you are with someone who really cares for you, they will find a way to have safer sex. There are herpes clubs because there are thousands of people with herpes looking for relationships.
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i am 26. i have had it since i was 18. i was drugged and raped. men have been very understanding. just be honest, and if they are worthy of your love, they will understand. i know how you feel, just be safe and honest, its all you can do now. good luck
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how did you get it? have sex with the man that gave it to you.
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Acyclovir.
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there are dating site JUST for people with herpes!
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I have it. acyclovir is a wonderful inhibitor of herpes. You will find love and have sex. Just be upront about it before someone becomes emotionally attached.
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How did you get it?
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OP ^My husband cheated on me with a hooker.
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Have you gotten sores or chancres?
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^Yes, I get sores on my vagina and anus. I have an open sore on my labia right now.
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^Are they ever painful?
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My boyfriend cheated on me and I too have them and felt the same way. In fact I stayed with him longer because I felt that way, but I have met a couple people that I felt comfortable enough to sleep with and when I told them about the herpes they were ok with it. If you're careful and take meds or use condoms and don't have sex while having an outbreak you should be ok. When you know that 1 out of 4 people have them its not as big a deal as you think.
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this is bs, there is no way to pin point where you got them from. are you being real? you were never with anyone else? you could have got them before you were married.
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I fell in love with a man that had it. I don't have it. We met abruptly, became attracted really quick and before we went forward he told me. I told him that it didn't make me look at him any differently. I wanted him more than the fear of contracting it scared me, and if he ever came back to me, I would put myself on the line just to have his baby. Love is blind to things like that.
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^^Are you the man who sucked my dick last night? Brad is that you?
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^^ No, I only f*** your mother. Address me as daddy, my bitter bastard child.
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^WHO ARE YOU? ARE YOU DC, CD, JP, TC, CA, CR, REV, FUZZ, JZ, HIV, IRS, CIA, FBI, DCF, AIDS, BPD, BP, OR HR? ARE YOU THE CRAIGSLIST KILLER?
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^OP: CD! Are you talking about my husband? That's the man that gave me herpes. He cheated on me with an Ave D crack whore.
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^Damn. this CD guy is a real winner.
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^colorado? this may answer some shit
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JUST CALL ME JC
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My gf has herpes. I don't. We are careful, she takes medicine. I love her. I going to marry her. Herpes is what she has, not who she is. I'd have missed out big time if I let it get between us.
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