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i think you are the "one" but this wouldnt be the first time my heart lead me wrong... and im scared

i think you are the "one" but this wouldnt be the first time my heart lead me wrong... and im scared

 
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Be scared and take it very very slowly. For me it takes about 6 solid months of dating to start to see the real person and to see how they truly are. Give yourself time before jumping into a marriage.
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Run while you can, if both of you are not absolutely certain you will become one of the divorce statistics. Better to be over cautious than to have your heart ripped out. It also saves you from having kids that you fight over in the divorce. Save everyone the trouble and wait until you both get married because each of you can't imagine being without each other.
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I agree with the first post. Six months is a good indicator. For me that indicator works far better when I am not having sex with them during that time.
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Good luck.
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It's a pretty ring..simple, classic....It would help if that was a know and not think!
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Stop being so desperate
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OK ;)
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Be careful and take it slow. Take some personal time for you to think about the situation. Try to meditate.
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You don't need a "one". Use her up and move on.
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Love is scary sometimes...real love even scarier, and well worth it.
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If you have good reason to believe this is the best decision, there's a magic phrase that helps me out when iffiness descends. Careful, it works. "All in."
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^stupid??????
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How long have you known the "one"?
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I think I finally met the right one after being with THE wrong one for 18 yrs. It feels good.
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^that is sweet...gives me hope
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2 up. Unless you have been with the new one for a year or more, you better guard your heart.
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Life is for the living - GO FOR IT! :D
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I wish
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I wish...
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1@2 up RIGHT
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