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I love my hubby of 8 yrs, but afraid that I'm developing feelings for a mutual friend & co-worker.

I love my hubby of 8 yrs, but afraid that I'm developing feelings for a mutual friend & co-worker.

 
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Why do people get married? Does anyone know what a Vow is? Fucking douche bag married people. Until death do us part.. or until the copy machine guy at work comes on to me. Freaking baboons!
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f*** that person and see how you feel then
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OP: I DO believe in until death do us part, that is why I am still with my husband
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Maybe it's not that I have feelings as much as it is that I like the attention I get from the co-worker that I don't get from my husband. I would NEVER act on any feelings I THINK I have because I LOVE MY HUSBAND!!
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And by the way....the co-worker isn't just some random "copy machine guy" as you call it. We have worked together as co-workers/friends for several years.
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So, OP, what you're implying is that as long as you are still with your husband, it is ok to continue on with exploring this possible infidelity? If you truly care about your marriage, you should disregard these inappropriate feelings that you are experiencing toward said co-worker.
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No possible infidelity here. Just unwanted feelings. I would NEVER cheat on my husband. We've been through too much for me to throw it all away on some feelings I THINK I may have for someone else.
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Um...Can we say jerry Springer?
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OP, life is too short to deal with an unhappy marriage. Is it good for you, your husband, or your kids (if you have any) if everyone is miserable with each other? Is the co-worker married? Is his situation the same? It seems that many times people who are unappreciated find each other and are much happier in the end. I had a friend who left her husband and was much happier in the end as she found that his personality had caused her to change to the point of disliking herself. Life is too short to be unhappy all the time...
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you dont have to be unhappy in a marriage to develop feelings for someone else. its human nature. you can't help what you feel, the only thing you can control is whether or not you act on those feelings. life is long, its pretty naive to think that once a person is married, their instincts and desires just shut off. don't be so judgemental.
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^ amen i agree
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Op: ^2 - Thank you for your understanding. And as I mentioned before, I do love my husband
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OP:^2 - Thank you for your understanding. And as I mentioned before, I do love my husband. And I will NEVER act on any feelings for anyone other than my husband. I just wish it was my husband I was getting the attention from.
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everyone, NAKED POOL PARTY!!
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Woo Hoo!!! Already naked....where's the pool??!!
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Here's what is going to happen. OP sucks coworker's cock. OP feels guilty and tells coworker that it will never happen again. Coworker politely disagrees after he shows her professional quality blackmail photos, OP gets on knees and gets-a-suckin'
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^ We can only hope!
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WHAT!!! She said she wouldn't tell. Now I gotta use these photos. Dammit.
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4^ right here baby, in the lap of my comment
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