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I cant be the other woman anymore its been over a year. Its time for you to decide me or her. Im done with this emotional rollercoaster I need to move on.

I cant be the other woman anymore its been over a year. Its time for you to decide me or her. Im done with this emotional rollercoaster I need to move on.

 
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better get movin"
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Don't let the other posters get to you. If he was happy at home he would not have needed you in his life. Most people that say mean things are the ones who didn't keep their own man happy so he strayed . Most won't wake up to reality that it is their fault too that the marriage is failing.But don't wait around for him to choose you chances are it isn't going to happen. He has his cake and is eating it too. I have been in your place I know what its like . A man isn't worth the hurt you as the other woman feels when he is at home with his family . Good Luck!
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Move on, you can do better than a married man. And if you didn't find anyone, just enjoy life and travel explore the world.
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Please do NOT let a man choose what you will do with your life!Remember, if he cheats on her, he will cheat on you!
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Don't stand in a LINE for any man.Don't settle for "sharing him"Don't settle for taking second place.MOVE ON ..... Take your personal power back.Don't even talk to him.....just move on and exit gracefully taking back all your power as a woman. Learn to be alone and don't feel you HAVE to have a man. And most important, do not stand in a line for ANY MAN>
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be strong, i just decided to let go myself, besides his wife, he has others too. i still loved him, he was my best friend, i hope we can still be friends but it's time for me to let go after 3 years. this type of relationship will drain you, trust me. good luck
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You're in for a world of hurt if he "decides" on you. Your life has for a year and will forever be on his terms. Walk away, fast.
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^Yup. And how come the married guy always gets to decide? What makes women wait for a crappy untrustworthy cheater?? Is it because she is also one?
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^ sometimes he is just the one.
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Get away from him! He will never pick you!I have a former friend who's been with a married man for 14 years. He told her he doesn't believe in divorce, when he had always let her know that after he retired, they would be together. Now that she knows, think she got away from him? NOooooo, she's a skank, and that's why I'm not friends with her anymore!
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People who cheat together and end up together end up miserable together. I know from experience. Take the road that leads AWAY from this guy.
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^ Mostly right-on advice here. I'm a guy. I'll never leave my wife, and my girlfriend knows and accepts it (and she isn't leaving her husband either). We are filling in certain gaps in each others' lives and both of our lives and marriages are better for it. Like Ellen Burstyn and Alan Alda.
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Leave... Nuf said....
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Shhme on you in the first place! One day you'll be in love and it will come back on you.
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