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Why do I find it so fulfilling to talk to u? Why doesn't my wife talk to me like u do? Why doesn't my wife respond the way u do? Why do you keep showing up?

Why do I find it so fulfilling to talk to u? Why doesn't my wife talk to me like u do? Why doesn't my wife respond the way u do? Why do you keep showing up?

 
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soul mates do that.
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Because you keep feeding it, dumbass!
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Because she strokes your ego and tells you what you want to hear. Your wife doesn't talk to you that way because she knows the real you and took a vow to be your partner and that means being real and not just stroking your fragile ego. Your wife doesn't respond the way she does because your wife is probably tired of you being so self absorbed. And she keeps showing up because she is a manipulative home wrecker who can only have any self esteem when she has won some man over another woman because she never took the time to develope any integrity or self respect. It's all very simple and plain to see really. Glad I could help you out.
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uh oh. infidelity. see two secrets above.
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^2 you must be somebody's wife, worry much?
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Why do smell like shit?
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why? i do because i love him. he is my best friend, that is what friend's are for, not to mention i believe in his ideas, when i don't i tell him.
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What is that smell?
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Because the grass is always greener that's why.Don't do it buddy. I did and then married crazy again, not my soul mate!
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^2 I don't smell anything. You've got a smelling problem.
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Maybe you and your wife have grown apart . And the person you talk to makes you feel important in ways your wife has forgotten. Talk to your wife and express your needs . Maybe she does not realize what you need from her.Keep the other person in your life but be careful not to neglect their feelings as you are questioning yourself about why??
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^3 may her grass isn't even green buddy. i want him i don't need him to marry me, i just want him as my partner. and only if they are not truly happy anymore. i believe two people should be able to be happy forever. i nevered married because i chose not to settle like you dipshit
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Yep, infedility. It's pretty obvious by the other 'secret' posted. This is yet another selfish man with a fragile ego who needs to be stroked instead of having the balls to face and deal with the choices he made and making them work. The woman commenting on here that is cheating with a married man is pretty damn funny too. So much denial and insecurity, so much unwillingness to grow up and be responsible. Just too easy to pretend it's a soul mate so you can f*** outside the marriage to make yourself feel more like a wanted man or woman. So sad.
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The question is, "Why are you hanging around her while married to someone else"?
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^i am far from insecure, people change, life changes, too each their own. yeah, i am friends with a married man. so be it. i did not settle. i believe the only insecure people here, are the ones who get married to be married. stupid. it's called going outside of the box. survival. networking. satisfaction. friendship, etc...... ;)
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personally, I'd rather go inside the box, lol
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^lol too
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^thanks i like too think i am funny, hope i made you laugh, as you sit there and wonder why your marriage is failing....
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i'm an inside the box kinda guy, also
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Maybe I keep showing up because we are each other's destiny.
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All of your questions are answered by, Because she knows you are weak at heat.
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Why don't you stop thinking with your "other head" and realize that this woman is exactly like the woman you have at home, but your mid-life crisis makes you want to be an a** ****. I hope your wife meets a nice man and leaves you.
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OP here. 1)I'm not cheating, 2)I'm not thinking with my other head, 3) My wife is very shelfish and see the thing is, if I did leave here then what would that do for the kids. (2 girls) I'm staying with her for the kids sake.
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bc she likes you and you like her and you both know it and are too afraid to admit it. life is short
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Believe me if your wife is selfish and your marriage is unhappy the kids would be happier in the long run if you split with their mom. I know this because my kids tell me they wish my husband and I had called it quits a long time ago. Kids know when things are not good between their parents.
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3^Well there's your problem right there. Your wife is a shellfish. Leave her, there are plenty more in the sea!
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leave your wife and try your luck elsewhere, if you think she will ever change you're wrong, all you will get is the same misery over and over. your kids will be fine
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2^ shellfish are yummy.
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Joel is that u lol
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Because I want a blow job.
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there are times for questions and times for f***ing. which time is this?
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^ Fucking ofcourse
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Why don't you tell your wife??? Why are you telling someone who has no contribution to the the problem at home what is she gunnah do? Tell you wife she makes you feel like shit. If there is no effort on your wifes part to change it then leave. I say effort because she won't change over night but just that she shows she wants to change means she loves you. Not wanting to change means she doesn't care and you will then have to grow balls and leave. your kids will be fine, no matter what you wife trys to pull mke sure your kids know that you love them by SHOWING them not telling them. Good Luck
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It ain't going to get better unless you try to make it better and I don't mean just you, I mean your wife do you suppose she is happy? I highly doubt it. Time for a week end away with out the kids and so some major talking! and stop using your kids as an excuse-- that is lame
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