real have a real problem, and i actually wish there was something i could do for you. hang in there.
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Please call the suicide hotline 1-800-273-8255. I don't know you, but I care about you.
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i cant imagine your pain.
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you will die one day that is for sure, so why not wait for it and maybe in the meantime you will possibly have a few more good experiences in your life. at least if you wait you have a 50/50 chance right?
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I understand this feeling so intimately. Trust me, feelings are not permanent. It will pass. I am sorry your son died. That must be a deep pain. You are strong enough to survive that pain. Your son would want you to live and I mean really live. Nothing is beyond healing. You can heal and go on to have love and happiness. If you can't do it for yourself right now, do it for your son until you can love and forgive yourself.
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^Not crazy. It sounds like your looking for a reason to avoid dealing with a problem. A few people know but aren't helpful? Maybe they could be helpful but you rejected it cause it wasn't convenient. Maybe if they aren't helpful you could try asking someone else. Other people can be important but should not be the primary focus of your life. It's bad for you and bad for them.
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^Have you told him this? Sometimes people don't realize how their actions effect others. If he doesn't listen to your clear communication, then you gotta do what you gotta do. BTW, it is avoiding the problem so long as you fail to communicate, whether you dump him or not.
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It's possible he'll change but not so long as you support the current situation by staying. Of course, counselling could help. People who are like that come from some bad places which you can do nothing about alone.
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~~~i didn't read any comments pior to me saying what i have to say. i honestly feel that your son passing before you was a merciful act. i know that you would protect your son at all costs even to die for him so please know that the pain you bear is because you can and that mecifuly he will not have to endure the pain of losing you. be strong for him.
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~~~ dear op,you seem like an intelligent person that wants attention and who feels best suited finding it through self professed pity. the orig. post made me think that your were in pain but when i read your post comments i realised that you wollow in self pity.
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Don't care for the personal bs. as you said Thanks, but no thanks. Why are you trying to explain your words to people over and over (in several posts) when you've stated so many times how little people here matter to you? *the dissonance of this comment is a mirror for your own*
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Ahhh, so you can see it but only on another person. hahahaha
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2^ laugh my ass off, laugh my ass on, ass off, ass on
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"Things would be better off..." is a lie the Greatest Deceiver whispers to you because he thinks you are listening and thinks he can get you to believe him. DON'T LISTEN TO LIES.
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As a mother that also lost her son, along with his wife and two precious granddaughters,I do know how your feel.Best advise I can give you is to accept the fact that you will never be truly happy again.Only then will you be able to get through your natural lifespan.ACCEPT your grief and you can get through the days.
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He wouldn't want you to feel that way, just cause he is gone does not mean you should stop living your life for him.
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