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I have secretly fallen in love with my FWB, he doesnt want anything more. I cant stop hoping he'll change his mind someday soon.

I have secretly fallen in love with my FWB, he doesnt want anything more. I cant stop hoping he'll change his mind someday soon.

 
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stop hoping, i fell in love after the first 6 months! going on 3 years, he can't change his mind, i accepted this but i secretly wish i can be with him forever. good luck, love hurts too.
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That is why you shouldn't have done the whole FWB thing. Its not the way were supposed to go about things. One Man One Woman! If that is all he wants you for, sex, then trust me he wouldn't make a good spouse. God made you beautiful and there is the perfect man out there for you.
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What is FWB? Fat, white, boyfriend??
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Is he actually your friend and not just the benefits? If he's really your friend, he won't keep f***ing you while knowing what it is you want. A FWB is different from a f***-buddy.
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FWB - Flatulent, windbag, blowhard? You're in love with Rush Limbaugh??
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i forgot to mention, FWB means he has other friends, duh
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Just enjoy your time with him. You can have a sexual relationship and still enjoy the time together.
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^Not if she's attached, kinda sucks the enjoyment out.
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FWB friends while banging,lol
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2 up. If she is attached and a fwb, she is the best kind to have. You don't have to bother with all the drama of a relationship. Just get some nooky and some loving, then let her go until the next time.
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Honey, let him go. He will not ever change his mind. Trust me, I've tried to do the FWB thing a few times and it never leads to anything productive or long lasting, or hell, emotional for that matter. Give up the ghost. He will never, ever, ever settle down with you. Never. EVER. Sorry, I'm just being honest. :)
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Who the hell came up with this idea FWB? That is the most ridiculous bahavior I've seen to date. The only thing that separates FWB's with hookers is a couple of bucks. Sex was intended to be something beautiful shared between two people. Now I gotta ask you...would he pursue you as a love interest more if you HADN'T given up the "benefit"? You know, that old saying that goes "why buy the cow if you can get the milk for free!" You made this mess, so stop your crying.
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Sweetheart, give him an ultrimatum. I think you are way too special and beautiful to lose. If he doesn't choose you, then he doesn't deserve you.
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