Maybe she didn't want to hear it from you because you are no better than her. Sometimes truth is easier to hear from someone else than family. You hurt her obviously.
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The truth is the truth....no matter who tells it.My sister doesnt want to hear it, so she hasnt spoke in 10 years, oh well.
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*^^ yes i did hurt her. but it is not my job to enable her to behave badly by overlooking the dysfunctional bullsh*t she pulls on everyone around her. ^agreed.
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Theres your side, her side..then there is the unbiased truth and the truth has no agenda. Maybe the pot calling the kettle black, or were you the spoiled child the parents loved and she wasn't..there are a lot of factors that may come into play here. Why is she dysfunctional, what happend to her? Or is it "selective truth"? You ever try to help her and not criticize, or is it beyond that.
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*^she is dysfunctional for many reasons. and she is actively trying to work on *some* of her issues. but she fails to realize that the people who love and support her the most are sick and tired of being financially used by her. she needs to grow up, stop using the system and everyone around her and take care of herself and her children independently. i realize that all the *help* i give her just enables her to not be responsible for herself. maybe i could have told her in a nicer way, but you can't really polish a pile of sh*t can you?
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How old is she?
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*^early 20's. and she is a very sweet person in many ways and i really do love her. but i have just lost all patience with her at this point.
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It takes some people time to get it together, especially if they have children to provide for. Early twenties are hard enough without kids. I should hope you didn't air any of her dirty laundry on facebook, and all issues aside, if she needs help, family is supposed to be there no matter what. If not for her, for the kids.
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*^of course i didnt air her dirty laundry on facebook, she just got mad at me for calling her out on being manipulative. i know being a single mom is hard, but that was also her choice. by the time i was her age i had been out on my own for almost 10 years and was able to accomplish quite a lot for myself. and while i didnt have children (i chose to wait until i was married and owned a home) it was not easy by any means. i know what it's like to struggle, and i also know that nothing good in life comes to you unless you work really hard for it.
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She was horrified that you posted to the world that she sucks horse cocks.
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^ we knew it already !!
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no body likes an a** **** blowhard
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4^ I'm so Unliking this update. If you think Facebook should have an Unlike button, Repost this as your status! Come on a** ****s, vote in the marketplace of ideas with your status updates, and tell all your friends to FRIEND ME. Thanks {:)3
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^^you would know.
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I was waiting to hear the details and I am glad I did. First off, I agree with you calling her out on her manipulation. I have a sister that is similar and after years of it wearing down my own life, I finally wised up. As for her defriending you... so what? It's just fakebook. You are trying to be real atm so why pretend she is a friend when she is abusing you with her irrespnsibility. This is her way of getting you back because she has no life and you do. Mine would post stupid shit on her profile about how I was jealous of her lol so guess what? I defriended her. She's no friend and neither is your sister. Do yourself a favor and get some distance for a while until your sister can have a relationship that consists of mutual respect and consideration.
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this male has a sister, who is a sister in name or on paper only! I envy those that have siblings that are for real, it must be nice but its something I will NEVER be able to experience.
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She will only forgive you when she takes responsibility. That may never happen.
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I have a dysfunctional relationship with my sister too. She blames me for mistakes she made. Can anyone relate ? Does this happen to others ?
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No, I can't really relate... my sister just acts like the shitty things she does are my mistakes and never takes any responsibility for them or makes amends or any real effort to change because don't you know??? The universe revolves around her!!!!
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Hypocrite. It's not the "truth" that is hard to hear, it is probably the way you packaged it. Besides, who are you to be dropping truth bombs on anyone. Hypocrite.
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How should the truth be packaged? Should it be heavily decorated with excuses and flattery so that you can just avoid it anyway? People who TRULY love their family member will speak the truth about the BS going on no matter how hard or painful it is. Ppl who don't love their family will avoid, run from, whine, complain about the truth being brought up because the truth is they only give a shit about themselves.
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^^do you even know what hypocrite means?
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Well, I think someone here may have forgotten about the plank in her own eye before telling dear little sis all that is wrong with her...do you have a mirror handy? Say the same things to the mirror then go talk to sis...
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My brother did the same thing because I am a democrat and he is a republican. Pretty stupid.
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