Instead of wishing dead, dickhead, why don't you avoid them?
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its not a matter of wishing death... and who avoids their own mother? Troll much?
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death= eternal suffering. I hope you will feel pity.
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Why is either unnacceptable? I have a mother like this and I have had moments of wishing her dead and now I just avoid her. She was sexually, emotionally and physically abusive and has forgotten it all and now expects me to get help for "false memory syndrome". There are some people in this world, some of them parents that are better left behind because they will never take responsibility, make amends or try to heal anything.
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^You put it excellently! I've been through what you've described with both parents. My father finally passed on last spring. I don't miss him, and rarely think of him. My mother is old, ill, and mentally/emotionally a mess. I don't live close enough to see her but do call her about once a week. Not out of love, but because I don't believe in leaving a weak, incapable being of any species to fend for itself. I'm hoping her passing is easy and uneventful.
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2^ In what reality is death equated with eternal suffering? That's not true according to anything I've read or studied. Death is an energy exchange, and it's a passing on to the hereafter (heaven or hell, your choice).
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2^ thanks. I plan on being there for my mother at her end to as I feel the same way (not that I view death as suffering - anyway). I don't hate her, I do have some love for her but I also have a family of my own now that is sane and happy that she would systematically destroy if I let her hence the distance. My point is that healing is the objective and if someone refuses to do so then it's time to move on. Pretending things are ok when they are not and subjecting yourself to an abusive person helps nothing.
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You will cry.. with relief because the torment is over. I did.
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MINE WAS A HATEFUL WOMAN,SHE DRANK AND NEVER LOOKED AFTER US.I AM 55 AND CAN NOT REMEMBER ANY ONE GOOD THING(OTHER THAN GIVING BIRTH TO ME)ABOUT HER.I WILL BE CELEBRARING THE ONE year of her death.WOULD ANYONE LIKE A GLASS OF THE BUBBLY
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