Life exists to meet God's plans for us. You just need to get over the other woman. You keep yourself stirred up by obsessing. You can stop by taking charge of your thoughts.
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Life is about growing up and dealing with our shit, the choices that we made, the feelings we have and being responsible for our actions. If you are obsessing over another woman it is more likely that you expect others to make you feel good about yourself. You made a choice to marry your wife, now deal with your feelings of loss and inadequacy and stop obsessing over what you don't have.
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loser, you probably have a wonderful wife, family. And your looking over the fence at only what ifs---- I feel sorry for your wife. I wouldnt want to be in her shoes
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I can relate. I have been married and divorced for some time and still think about and care so much for a man I worked with years ago. The feelings were mutual then but both of us moved on. I made more money than him and it bothered him. He has even tracked me down when I moved across the country with my job. I will die loving this man. I think it is wonderful when someone has such strong feelings about another. If you are married, think before you try anything though. The person may not want you at all. If you have a good wife and good life, then maybe continue thinking of this woman....but don't act,,,,unless she is emotionally and physically available and ready to pursue a future. So many times the grass looks greener///// But more often than not......it's just more grass. Thanks for sharing with us. I think I'll write to my long lost love and see if I can get a response. I burn for his touch.
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My friend told me once that being obsessed with someone is the smae as beign in love. so my question to the OP is, are you obsessed with your wife?
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The day after you get married, it doesn't matter if you married the "right" person; you get busy and make the marriage work. Get over the other woman. Who knows, she may not be the person today who you thought she was back when.
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Be happy with what you have. Besides, I'm sure your wife has thought about or seen people from her past and thought the same thing! Do something real nice for your wife and push that other person out of your mind. I've been married for 26 years and I've thought of what could have been with other people but in the end we made our choices. Till death do us part!
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^^^ 3 up...your friend doesnt know what she/he is talking about !! get over it....being obsessed is NOT being in love !!
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you may love your wife as you can love many at one time but your not inlove with her. the rest of the world doesnt exsist when your inlove, many say this love doesnt exsist and ill admit its rare, very rare but it does exsist!! in 50yrs ive seen this love 3 times and im always in aw, it shines theres no mistaken it.
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I filed for divorce 5 years ago. Divorce is expensive and I am just now getting to the point to where I have some financial breathing room. There was no kids involved, so weigh your options carefully. Anyway, if I had to guess your obsession it originates from masturbation. Your obsession more associated with fantasy than anything more emotionally deeper then that. If you base your "love" on that, you are in big trouble, if your ever hook up with that person.
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this OP looks constipated !!
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^...if your friends are gay, you are too......water seeks its own level !
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^^Huh? What does water level have to do with butt-f***ing?
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