It's normal for people who are molested and that is why molestation is perpetuated through generations and cycles. What is not normal or ok is acting on those urges. You need to heal from them. Get some help. Don't become another person who uses innocent children to fill their needs of personal power and control. Empower yourself through healing and control yourself by finding healthy balanced relationships.
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^^Whose to say that if she did it with her uncle it would not give her the satisfaction that she fantasizes about? Not for me, but it may work for her. She just needs to scope her feelings realistically and go from there.
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I was molested as a child as well . And now I as an adult I need to be submissive in order to feel good . But I think those people who use the excuse of being molested as a child to grow up to become the abuser are disgusting. One thing I have never thought of is hurting someone the way I was hurt.That is just wrong.
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OP, if you had to take a hard guess, how do you think the uncle would feel if you brought up the situation and told him you would like to relive the moments? How old is he and you?
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3^ so you are suggesting that she validate the actions of her abuser by proposing reliving the abuse? Yeah, sure that will work and that is what we all need - NOT! Let me guess, you would also be a child molester? And to the one who needs to be submissive - you need to get help too. You have not healed unless you can have a sexual encounter that is mutually loving and supportive.
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You dirty Uncle Phucker!
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OP, those thoughts are not you. It's programming put there by your uncle and others. Resist! It's no different than any addiction, a daily conscious effort.
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