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I finally divorced my wife because she gained 200 lbs after having our son. She refused to lose the weight and I didn't want to have sex with her anymore.

I finally divorced my wife because she gained 200 lbs after having our son. She refused to lose the weight and I didn't want to have sex with her anymore.

 
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All you haters better hope you never gain an ounce. Tables could be turned on you pretty quick. You're just mean people.
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^Shut up miss piggy
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2 up: Why are people haters just because we see fat people as something gross?
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I think that all people who expect people to appear perfect on the outside should be put in concentration camps so that they could just destroy one another.
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You did the right thing. If you don't love her you should let her go.Now at least she has a chance. You know what happens after the divorce right? The woman loses weight. She will be back to herself in no time.
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^so what happens if your husband had a medical condition that caused him to gain weight (like taking long term steroids for instance), would you divorce him then because your relationship is based solely on looks???? what about when his nutsack drags on the floor when he is 80 years old? to gross of a thought for you????? i think "for better or for worse" was the issue that these woman had with the op, not how much weight she actually gained. the op has the right to not want to be with an UNHEALTHY person, but if sex was the only thing that was important to him then he should have stayed single and not impregnated anyone.
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We knew someone who divorced her husband because he got MS. The judge said is there anything you'd like to say and she said IN COURT that HE RUINED HER LIFE! What a lousy piece of shit! She was seriously angry and divorced this man because he got sick! You took vows, for better or for worse, richer or poorer, in sickness and in health till death do you part. Have you tried going for walks together? Treating her nicer? Or do you just name call and hate? She deserves someone better than you that's for sure. I feel sorry for your son. Hope he doesn't get fat or have any issues you don't like. You'll probably shun him too.
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We knew someone who divorced her husband because he got MS. The judge said is there anything you'd like to say and she said IN COURT that HE RUINED HER LIFE! What a lousy piece of shit! She was seriously angry and divorced this man because he got sick! You took vows, for better or for worse, richer or poorer, in sickness and in health till death do you part. Have you tried going for walks together? Treating her nicer? Or do you just name call and hate? She deserves someone better than you that's for sure. I feel sorry for your son. Hope he doesn't get fat or have any issues you don't like. You'll probably shun him too.
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^so what if you got severely depressed after childbirth (hormonal imbalance) and stopped caring about your body? would you want your husband to leave you or would you want your husband to help you get well again? gaining 200 pounds means something is WRONG with her mental health which is a SICKNESS.....her brain is sick and instead of getting her professional help he left her, and not only her but he left his child in the care of a severely depressed person which is even sadder. that kind of drastic weight gain has nothing to do with not caring about being "sexy" you stupid CuNt....but then again looks is all that matters to a person like you so why am i wasting my breath?!
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Wow! I must comment here. Some serious education is needed. First of all where do people that live in this western world derive thier perceptions from? We are all programmed. Media, economy, beauty industry etc want us to feel less than worthy so we will spend billions to be "accepted and loved". We are all brainwashed to be shallow consumers who drive this economy with our own self loathing! In my 20's I was a gorgeous woman. I modeled and acted. I was in a fitness workout video. I lived in the gym. I bought it hook line and sinker. I felt valued for my looks- only. I was worthless otherwise. Then came the abusive controlling husband. Over a ten year period I felt trapped with 2 babies in tow. I gained 150lbs over time from the hell I lived in. I left with the clothes on my back and 2 babies on my hips. With death threats on my back. I suffered from PTSD. Healing took place. I found value in just being human and giving to others that are struggling. I am losing the weight now but not to "look good". I want to be healthy and strong so I can be here for my kids. I am engaged to a university professor who loves ALL of me. Love yourself and others and life will be worthwhile.
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