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I once thought love was a simple and easy thing, I've since discovered it's quite the opposite. lucky me...

I once thought love was a simple and easy thing, I've since discovered it's quite the opposite. lucky me...

 
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You are lucky. It shows your maturity. The simplicity of love is found in fairytails, which explains why we often times grow up and get into trouble.
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Yoou are growing up and frankly, that is lucky... love is a verb, it takes effort, work, a willingness to face the good and the bad. It's worth it.
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It is worth it only with the right one
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^yeah it is....
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...its also a 4 letter word, be careful.
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I am looking for the same thing. Good luck in your search. You never know where it might come from. I hope I am right on that.
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The right one is the one you choose to love. Nothing magical about it. But you can keep pretending in soul mates if you need to so that you won't really have to do any work.
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you are spot on.
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^2 so true, i learned that the person you love can do no wrong, including desiring other women
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Op here, thank you so much for not posting pointless negative comments, It means a lot.
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I am the first poster. Honey, negative comments are the norm here. You just have to roll with it. Love is an awesome thing. But it is hard to find. I have been married and divorced. I have dated many women. I did not find a truly decent woman until I was 50 years old. It was not because of all women are bad up to this point to my life. It is because we weren't compatable, but I stuck around anyway. I think one secret to finding someone good is not sleeping with them for AT LEAST 6 months. Just date them. When there is not sex involved you see the red flags so much easier and you are able to walk away easier without all the attached emotions that sex creates. Try it. You'll see what I mean. I guarantee it works.
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The only thing I learned from Love is the power it gives someone to crush you!
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My love is a blow up doll named Sally, I can slap her around all nite long and never have the cops called on me, never whines about anal, or has to have the Newest shoes!@
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^^second up: I totally agree!!! I'm learning, however, that you give up that power yourself. Too trusting in others....
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^ - ^ 2up.....Sally does it all for you and you need to slap her around?...you got a MAJOR problem !!
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Yep. It really stinks. I am in the same boat. Was in a bad marriage for 22 years. Guess I have higher standards.....
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Not that the first time wasn't great but damned if I'd ever want to go back. Love isn't so complicated though, if you're honest.
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