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My husband keeps on telling me that if I loose weight he will divorce me. I just want to scream at him "divorce me or deal with it."

My husband keeps on telling me that if I loose weight he will divorce me. I just want to scream at him "divorce me or deal with it."

 
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how big/little are you? if you are already thin and obsessed with losing weight then i wouldnt want to be married to you either....anorexics are very selfish people in general and do not make good life mates! on a side note, if you talk about giving him blowjobs as much as you talk about losing weight he probably wont divorce you :)
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lose the weight and dont tell him, unless you secretly want the divorce and will clean him out on such poor grounds ?
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He is afraid of losing you . Lose weight if it will make you feel better but be careful not to go to the extreme and make yourself sick.
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Please make sure that you are a healthy weight if you are lossing weight. like the frist poster said, anorexia is NOT the way to go, it is NOT a good life choice and will only shorten your life by malnurishing you. That being said, if you want to become more fit, you don't need to actually loose weight. just change your fat into muscle, which weighs more then fat anyways.. so 'technically' you could change your body to smoething you like more, but will be around the same weight.good luck, much love
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Do what you want. If you want to starve yourself, do it the right way. Check out a few pro-ana websites and read some tips. You can starve yourself and be okay. Don't listen to these people, they don't know what they are talking about. You just need to learn how to hide what you are doing.
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^hell yes. Do you know what tastes really good? SKINNY.
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you pro-ana people are fUcKing hilarious! i just googled that sHiT and spent the last half hour reading about this glorious lifestyle and let me tell you what an eye opener...what a bunch of head cases!!! and i stand by my statement, anorexics are SELFISH and SELF ABSORBED and do not make good life partners. all they care about is THEMSELVES, nothing else matters to them but torturing themselves all day, every day which is why they are all so unhappy. i say do the world a freakin favor and starve yourself to death, one less pathetic story to listen too!!!
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^OH LOOK! A jealous fatty! You fatty girls are so easy to spot. LOL
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^OH LOOK! a jealous mentally ill girl with no hope at life! you mentally ill girls are so easy to spot. LOL
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^^pro-ana = has serious daddy issues lmfao!!!!
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skinny.........good
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Then do it, scream on, sistah!
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op, do you really want to become like these stupid girls that are posting this dribble? why not focus on something that actually matters like going to college or your family?
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4^ Laugh on this. They usually have daddy issues, because daddy f***ed them a few times, stopped, and made them feel guilty about it. People don't just out of the blue decide to torture themselves.
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^give me a break, i knew lots of girls who had eating disorders growing up and it usually had more to do with them wanting to fit into a size zero and be popular than incest! my best friend just turned into an anorexic a few years ago and it had nothing to do with daddy raping her, her mom died of cancer and the only thing she felt like she could control was food and her weight. anorexia is about CONTROL not guilt or shame... people who are spoiled and have control issues manifest stupid problems for no reason other than to get attention. pro-ana girls dont want help, they want control so that people feel sorry for them. well they are barking up the wrong tree with me, if you want help fine if not go off and die and shut up about it!
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^ I won't give you a break. I said usually, because while every girl that I've known intimately who had an eating disorder was in fact raped, often by relative(s), I do realize that eating disorders can be caused by other events. Control-seeking and guilt or shame are not mutually exclusive emotional states. You could really learn a bit of nuance.
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