because you secretly like being treated like shIt and will sabotage a good thing in order to repeat your past mistake.
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You are sad because you are still thinking of all the good things that your abuser said to you, while forgetting about the bad. Once you trust your new man completly and realize how much control your abuser had over you, you will start to get angry with your abuser and realize all he took from you when you were together.
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this is how i feel right now but im stuck in it, howd u get out? im so scared to feel the pain of not getting over the him when i know i need to i just dont think i can, it hurts so bad
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you have piss poor self esteem and like getting abused...get professional help OR spend your life in the gutter-YOUR CALL ONLY !!!
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I am a man who was in a relationship that was extremely unhappy. I finally broke it off, but we humans hate the first step of dealing with the emotions of the pain of change.
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You should be treated like a Queen. I treat my wife very well, but sometimes I think she feels its not good enough.
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OP, how does this picture relate to your secret ? I know you are in a hurtful place yet good place at the same time. Switching gears to be with another won't erase the damage and hurt done to you by the other. It will take time. I only hope you didn't JUMP too fast out of one bad relationship to the next. Most relationships start out good and romantic and everyone in their best behavior. Seems to me that stage lasts 6 months then the true selves start to emerge.I got divorced from an extremely abusive relationship and in 2 years I jumped headstrong into a relationship where he made me feel like a queen. We married way too fast. Of course, in the long run, it didn't last. I truly believe after a painful seperation, divorce or loss, one should take time, learn to be comfortable being alone, learn to create you own happiness and place of peace. Learn to love yourself and understand yourself as a stand alone person. Then, after a while, most are more capable of making good choices and knowing when you've truly found a kindred spirit....not just a body to fill the void. Please be careful and take your time. Best wishes to you for a future with joy and peace.
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