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At 13 and asked you to start putting on clothes around the house. You said, "It's my house - I'll walk around the way I please." It screwed me up for life.

At 13 and asked you to start putting on clothes around the house. You said, "It's my house - I'll walk around the way I please." It screwed me up for life.

 
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in what ways exactly? i am very curious to know
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Parents always need to be sensitive to their kids. Not really sure what this is all about. If it's mom who walked around naked all the time until 13 then there needed to be discussion about why that changed, if it was dad crossdressing at 13 then same thing. Your parents insensitivity to you adjusting to change is the core of what hurt you but you can heal from it.
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Ohh PLEASE get a GRIP!! There are mothers out there doing hard drugs in front of their kids.. You are making a mountain out of an ant hill...
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what damage resulted ? are you a nudest or a prude now? or maybe gay?
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OP here: As I was coming up, it was no big thing for her to walk around in various stages of undress. I did too...that's just the way it was in our house. But after 13 the hormones kicked in (and that was around the time she discovered thongs). I began having the kind of thougts no boy should have toward his mom.
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Thanks for clarifying and you are right, NO child should see their parent in this way and it is damaging. I assume you are an adult now. You need to get some help for this, learn what appropriate boundaries are and start to use them for yourself. When you can do that you will have less problems of "seeing mom" during those passionate moments and you can enjoy yourself beyond your mothers very real sexual exploitation and abuse of your young mind.
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To the comment about mother doing drugs... apples and oranges (no pun intended). What the OP experienced is sexual abuse and just as damaging to any child that is forced to watch their parents do drugs.
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Damn, man, what kind of great-grandma do you have?
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You may not know that the famous psychologist Sigmund Freud believed that every son has those thoughts about their mothers subconsciously. I don't agree with it, but that was a strong belief of his.
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I bet your mom was/is hot in bed. I would not doubt that your mom fantasized about you during masturbation. I know it is gross and perverted, but if I could bet on it, I would.
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^ I would double down on it.
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OP, did your mom ever give you any indication that she might be interested in you sexually? What level of dress was she usually in? Did she walk around without panties or without a bra, etc.?
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I know it is wrong, but I think this is kinda hot. But then again, it isn't me and my mom.
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pics or it didn't happen
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^^Oh, yeah. Like the guy is going to post pics of his naked mom. lol
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OP: There are some interesting questions being asked here.Please come back here and answer.
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That pic is fcking hot.
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^^why you SICK piece of SH!T!! Impersonating me (the OP) just to post fantasies from your diseased mind here!!! Other than walking around the house in underwear, NOTHING happened. For you to take a traumatic chapter from someone else's life
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And try to feed your own sick fantasies with it...My experience may have left ne a bit "disturbed", but YOU, sir, are undeniably SICK!! None of that trash ever happened to ME - I wonder about YOU!!!
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My dad did the same thing to me. (I'm female)...Used to wake me up for school (Junior high) totally naked. You can imagine the height of his penis..it was right next to my face. I finally asked my mom to tell him to put on some clothes and he did. But it screwed up my sense of boundaries. He should've known better and not have to have been told.
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Just what was the height of his penis? Is he hung like bull elephant, or a fruit fly?
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My mom was a mean, horrible hateful ugly manic depressing b****. At least all your mom did was flaunt a little tna. My mom is/was Satan. I'll trade with you.
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Don't degrade Satan. According to the little Christians, if you party with Satan, you will have fun beyond moral boundries set by the God who loves me so much, if I decide to live the life that God has known since I was in the womb, he will make sure I burn in unimaginable torture
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Hey, Op. Do you remember breastfeeding in kindergarten? Have you been close to your mom through the years?
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The one
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You mom sounds hot. Not because of what she did around the house. I think she is hot because I know she was sexually supercharged. I know for a fact that she was a freak in the bedroom.
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LOL. Well, my dad never told me if she was a freak in bed.
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Sorry, no, this is bullshit. It's aboo in oursociey to have any sexual feelings for family, bu it happens anyway. It's normal. What isn't normal is people making themselves and others feel guilty for it. OP, if you had a frame of reference you'd see this isn't a big deal. Try visiting a rape and abuse survivors meeting for some perspective.
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