So you are on the DL?
|
| Admin | Remove this stupid comment |
|
Op, listen up very closely. When I was in my 20s I was in the exact same position as you are. I was engaged to a woman and wanted to do this ex-flame I dated in high school. It was ter for the taking, but I didn't follow through. I married and now I am divorced. My point is, you are not ready for marriage. I can virtually assure you, you are headed to the same place. It would be very wise for you not to get married.
|
| Remove this stupid comment |
|
Go for it! Don't tell your fiancé unless you're pretty sure he'd enjoy watching.
|
| Remove this stupid comment |
|
You don't LOVE anyone, least of all that fiancee. Break up with the fiancee because the fiancee can do better than you.
|
| Remove this stupid comment |
|
You and your HS friend are the same gender ?
|
| Remove this stupid comment |
|
2 up is right. You are not mature enough to love someone..if you are considering this. Grow up.
|
| Remove this stupid comment |
|
It is not about maturity. It is about being ready to settled down.
|
| Remove this stupid comment |
|
^... duh
|
| Remove this stupid comment |
|
1 up. Most men never really want to settle down. We are like lions on the African Plains. We want to spread our seeds as far and wide as possible.
|
| Remove this stupid comment |
|
^ 1 up....thats me, but i'm not African (white)
|
| Remove this stupid comment |
|
1 up, I wrote 2 up. I am white too. My statement applies to 99% of men. We are wired that way
|
| Remove this stupid comment |
|
1up, then why not say, in your opinion, we are typical men, instead of calling us Africans ?
|
| Remove this stupid comment |
|
1 up. LOL are you being purposely obtuse? That comment said "[men] are like lions on the African Plains", and did not say anything about all men being Africans. It's a metaphor, silly.
|
| Remove this stupid comment |
|
OP: Not sure how old you are or how long you have been in a relationship with your fiance, but you have a lot to think about. It's possible the attraction you feel for your HS friend is harmless. Even married, we will all go through our lives seeing other people we are attracted to. However, you may want to consider whether you are ready to be married. It is not immature to recognize the fact that you do not want to be married at this time, or to this person. Quite the opposite, actually.
|
| Remove this stupid comment |
|
cheating skank
|
| Remove this stupid comment |
|
3 up....re-read....that comment said MOST men etc, etc....that isnt me...most or not...are you female ?
|
| Remove this stupid comment |
|
do it! you may regret it but you will definitly regret not doing it.
|
| Remove this stupid comment |
|
mOST MEN WHO FEEL THE NEED TO SPREAD THEIR SEED FAR AND WIDE WILL CLAIM TO BE WIRED THAT WAY. tHEN THEY WILL TELL YOU THAT ALL MEN IMAGINE ALL WOMEN NAKED. mEN AREN'T WIRED THAT WAY, IT'S A BULLSHIT EXCUSE FOR DISRESPECTFUL BEHAVIOR AND SHALLOWNESS AND GULLIBILITY.
|
| Remove this stupid comment |
|
gay females leave their CAPS button on......
|
| Remove this stupid comment |
|
^eAT ME.
|
| Remove this stupid comment |
|
<---Is in the same position but im a woman and she is a woman and she is engaged and i have a fiance too. I have always wanted to try her out <3
|
| Remove this stupid comment |
|
African lions are so much more promiscuous than Canadian lions. :/
|
| Remove this stupid comment |
|
