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I'm 30 wks prego. My fiance hasn't seemed to want to have sex with me at all since I got pregnant. I can't figure out why and am starting to think he's cheating

I'm 30 wks prego. My fiance hasn't seemed to want to have sex with me at all since I got pregnant. I can't figure out why and am starting to think he's cheating

 
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Is sex all you people think about?
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I'll let you suck my dick. If you're hot.
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Note: He is your Fiance. Now that you are pregnant, reality is setting in for him that everything is so final, such as having a kid. Now he is thinking marriage is so final and he may not like the feeling of being caged, trapped, or whatever. For all he knoew you got pregnant intentionally. Only you know that for sure. If he suspects that you relationship is doomed. Even if you get married. By the way, why id the hell would you get pregnant before marriage anyway?
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Op here, this is our second child. Believe it or not, you don't have to be married to have children. Every marriage I have seen come about because the woman was pregnant has ended in divorce. We have been together for 9 and a half years now, it's not a fear of commitment thing! And to the first comment, when it has been 30 freaking weeks, yea, that is all I think about at the moment!
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Talk to him.
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^ 5 years celibate and I still don't miss it that much. Try getting yourself off. Same results, but it's quicker and a lot less bullshit to deal with.
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I truly hope he is not cheating on you. Do you have other reasons to think he is cheating, or is it just his lack of sexual interest in you? You can do a little bit of investigating to find out. Is it possible that he is just concerned about sex with a pregnant woman? Some people are afraid it will hurt the baby, so maybe the two of you can sit down and discuss the situation. Best of luck to you.
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his bad preggo chicks are hot !!!!! 8-)
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Have you TALKED to him?? I think I would. Some guys are freaked out at having sex with their gal when she is pregnant. Be honest with him, and no yelling. Good luck.
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He doesn't want to have sex with a pregnant chick dumbass.
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if he had no problem having relations with you with your first child and thats why your like WTF now.. that makes sense.. is there any other things that make you think he is cheating on you? ei, leaves early for work, gets home alot later then usual from work, smells different, not into even hugging/kissing, strange calls/texts having showers at odd times? maybe if you have gained alot more weight with this pregnancy or maybe more stretch marks.. he is a little freaked out.. my man didnt want realtions with me when i was at the end of my pregnancy with our son.. but after i had had the baby.. he told me he just couldnt do it.. it was wierd and he knew he couldnt REALLY hurt the baby.. but it still wierded him out.. we tried EVERYTHING.. then came to realize.. we just had to wait for a bit.. 6 weeks after baby was born... sex was GREEEEEAAAAT :) if you 2 have been together for almost 10 years there should be no problem talking about your issues.. talk to him honestly, trust and communication are what make a relationship.. if you cant talk openly and honestly i would highly reccomende NOT getting married... good luck to you and your family :)
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1 up. Shew! Thanks for the advice. It is always good to hear from a woman what she expects when she thinks her man is messing around. I'll takes your cues for my own marriage and make sure I never do the things you mentioned.
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^ lmao
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TALK to HIM.. You'll never know what's going on in his mind unless you sit him down and TALK!
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They all cheat. Didn't you know?
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1 up. We cheat because you women have never learned that each man needs our space. You think we are supposed to be domesticated like caged animals. But we are wired like lions. We want to travel as far and wide as possible while we spread our seed as often as we can. We take our cues from Tony the Tiger. When it comes to nookie, we men think it is Grrreat!
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F u c k i n-A. Tony the Tiger is the man. He knows what he is talking about.
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I remember making love to my wife when she was pregnant. I thought it was the most beautiful expression of intimate love we could share.
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He doesn`t like fat chicks!!
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Dont be a fool he is cheating..
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Do you have big titties?
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