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My father is going to pass away soon.  Im not sure what I should say to him.  I want it to be perfect.

My father is going to pass away soon. Im not sure what I should say to him. I want it to be perfect.

 
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don't say anything. just enjoy life
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tell him you love him and how much you have enjoyed the time you have had with him and how much he means to you. Im a father, thats what I would want, just to be assured that you would be ok.
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I lost my Daddy too and it's a horrible thing. I miss him every day. Before he died, I told him that I love him and am so glad he was my Daddy because no one else would have done such a good job. Then I thanked him for being such an awesome Grandfather and I will make sure my boys never forget him. Because of how wonderful he was to these guys, they never do forget and we often talk about Dad. God bless ya. This is going to be hard for a very long time...
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Be sure to give him permission to go. Tell him that it is ok to leave his body when it's time.
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2 and 3 up is very good advice. Think of some things that you think disappointed him about you. Tell him you are sorry and promise you will try to do better than you have done. I just lost my mom.
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2^ perfect advise
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forgive old hurts
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just tell him how much he means to you, and that you'll miss him. say whatever you feel, and try to forgive or resolve any 'bad blood'.
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Just let your heart speak . Say " I Love You " and that you were so lucky to be his Son/ Daughter.
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Heh, 1^, g-o a-w-a-y! OP: you have my condolences. I just lost my adopted dad. Am gonna miss him more than I miss my biological dad who raised me till I was an adult. :\ Lots of good advice in the above posts - forgive, ask for forgiveness if necessary, tell him you love him.
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You know, for those of us who have lost our Daddy, the loss is terrible and the pain is very real. Your stupid comments about n words in heaven and can I have all your stuff is thoroughly offensive. I've pushed "remove this stupid comment" a hundred times and you're still there...Thanks for making me hurt worse today. I can't miss my Dad enough without ignorance....
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JUST be with him and let him feel ur love.
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