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My ex wife told our 4 daughters I was having an affair our entire marriage..a complete lie. I would never tell them she was for the last year of our marriage

My ex wife told our 4 daughters I was having an affair our entire marriage..a complete lie. I would never tell them she was for the last year of our marriage

 
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Dude, don't put your kids in the middle of you and your wife's sexual dysfunction. That is disturbing.
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tell her that!! I would never do that
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^Maybe your lawyer should tell her that.
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she made that up because she figured you were going to rat out the rat and she wanted to be one up. UP HERS !!
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I just can't understand how she could make them feel so awful as to think of their father that way,if she loves them as much as she claims she does.
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women should go back to being property. life would be much easier.
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If your kids are grown then tell them.
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they are still young and live with her and the boyfriend...she did it to destroy my relationship with my girls to enhance hers
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Your children are never too young to know the truth. Don't rat her out but tell them how much you love them and how you loved her and that you didn't cheat.
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it's horrible how some parents play that game with their kids! I feel sorry for your kids but since she blabbed about you, it's only fair to sit them down and tell them YOUR side and try to keep it as simple as possible. When they grow up, they'll know who was there for them and who was a cheating liar.
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Sell the b****'s car... and buy yourself a cool guitar!
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No matter what you decide to do your first choice should be to speak with your lawyer. I am a woman and we tend to be REALLY EVIL when we hate someone. protect yourself and speak to your lawyer. Don't get mad.. get smart!
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I was in the exact situation. My kids were teens when she told them. I iknew she screwed around on me during marriage though. I told my teens the only way to settle this was for me and their mom to take a lie detector test to see who really messed around. She refused and the problem went away.
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3^ Nice one but i would mess with the engine so it would break down when shes driving, and leaver her stranded let her boyfriend come get her..
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I like the lie detector test angle. That's a good one!
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4^ is spot on. See your lawyer first.
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FIGHT fIGHT fight
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thanks everyone but my main concern is the hearts of my girls and the only pain I feel is theirs. I would never think of hurting their mommy in any way. I am single she lives with her boyfriend who is a co worker...I think they know the truth now! I told them it was not true
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they will figure out she's a tramp....in due time.
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Note to the 'boyfriend': anyone that will cheat WITH you will eventually cheat ON you. Karma can be a B!TCH.
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1 up. It is not karma, a$$hole. It is common sense. You Karma people are goofballs who should be caged and sent to the bottom of a lake.
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You are still a piece of crap for having an affair. Scumbag.
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1 up who are you talking to? she had the affair not him
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Hey 1 up, 2 up is also 4 up. That speaks for itself.
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KARMA is an acronym for..Kiss A Real Mans Ass
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1 up. Karma means: Kartoons Are Reaching More Assholes
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My mother tried to tell me she caught my Dad and Grandmother in a compromising situation. I hate her for it!
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To the above poster: your situation is not the same. A mother cheating versus screwing the in-laws is very different.
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