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I mastrubate (compulsive) every 4-5 days,in secret.I'm in a solid 4yr relationship & love my girlfriend,we're happy,we have sex every 2-3 days.Is this normal?

I mastrubate (compulsive) every 4-5 days,in secret.I'm in a solid 4yr relationship & love my girlfriend,we're happy,we have sex every 2-3 days.Is this normal?

 
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It's very, very normal. For men and for women. You shouldn't feel ashamed about it or that it has to be a big secret. Everyone masterbates.
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pshhh 4-5 days dont feel bad your fine I used to every day.
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Yeah, that's not abnormal at all for man or woman. Hardly anyone is ever constantly sexually satiated except in the most heated and immediate of relationships. Once every 4-5 days is if anything below avg.
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Maybe it was supposed to say 4-5 times a day? That would make more sense. Even then, you might not have a prob, as long as you have enough left for your girlfriend and a variety of stuff (porn) does it for you. If you get stuck on something odd, and can only think about it to get you there even with your girl, then you might want to think about slowing down.
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You can never have too much of a good thing.
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I'm jealous. I wax the wand nearly every day and have sex with my wife about once a month. I'd love to be in your position.
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Sex is my drug of choice also.
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I masturbate more often than my boyfriend. We have sex about 3 times a week and I can never get enough.
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i adore my boyfriend and love having sex with him...and still masturbate at least once a day ;)
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I masturbate at least 2 times a day. I have sex with my boyfriend only about once or twice a month.
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With all you people masturbating all the time, no wonder no one answers the phone at DMV. Twice a day? How do you even have time to do that!? Get back to work!
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i do it at least once a day, when i'm having sex or not
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thats nothing lol
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I am going to do it right now. The only thing wrong is my sholders and arm hurt.
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4-5 days....Try every day.
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Everyone masturbates but not everyone spells it correctly. Or is it my eyes? Mom was right. I'm going BLIND!!!
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Men HAVE to masturbate, and women need to realize it. It doesn't mean he is not attracted to you, it's just human nature. I have no problem with a man masturbating, I just tell them, "I will give you your privacy, just let me know if you need a hand"
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you are between 15 & 23...hell, I'm 54 and i masturbate too...good grief get a life
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I have a friend who got caught by his wife. Now whenever I call him, and his wife answers, I hear her yell, "it's for you, jerkoff!"
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I must be real f***ed up, I jerk off sometimes 3 times a day, I like the feeling although it only lasts a few seconds. The mess is a problem though
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been married for ten years, been rubbin one off everyday (almost) for the last 20 years! sex is great although not as good as it was but i still like being alone and masturbating , no matter how often i get it.
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gave myself a hernia
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Masturbation is safe and healthy. Quit worrying.
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Your A GUY Aren't You?
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Not to be disgusting, but I got up out of bed this morning, went to the couch and masturbated. Later on this evening, I will go back to bed, with my wife, and make love. Masturbation is very normal. Even better when your partner is involved.
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Pulling on it half an hour a day keeps the "other b****" away. Ask her for help you may be plesantly surprised.
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How about 4 times a day
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Twice a day (usually), then sex about once every 2 weeks.
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My boyfriend and I have sex at least several times a week and he still wacks off. I take no offense by it as I do it more than him.
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every day
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Sorry I would of posted sooner but I was busy jerkin off.
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it's ok.. I can't usually go more than 2 days without a good session with barry white, hot shower and lotion. I'm a self-hating tragic romantic type too so you know I don't even get laid on a regular basis. don't feel bad.
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Normal here. Suprisingly she told me she wanted to help me let loose...
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NOT NORMAL - depends on your religion or spirituality - check out the book Every Man's Battle if you really want help. If you have a partner, if might really hurt their feelings.
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No. Masturbating compulsively in secret is NOT normal. Masturbating compulsively in public is fine of course.
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Of course it is normal!
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I once did it 8 times in 2 hours out of sheer boredom and lack of sex with my wife for 3 months.
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I choke the chicken everyday, sometimes 2-3 times a day if im left alone long enough. And yes my wife and I have really great sex frequently.
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nothing wrong with that.. i wouldn't call you a compulsive masterbater. ive masturbated more than once in a day.....and i have sex, idk people have urges yo
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we are our own best lovers,,,who knows what we like better then us?
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Damn! I can do twice a day...by myself or with another guy! Just let it happen!
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just don't wear it out or old age will f--ck you over
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The day you two masterbate together and get the truth out there is the day you will have amazing sex.
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This is the best web site ever.
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You know what? I am a female and masterbate at LEAST twice a day. I also have sex about twice a week. Masterbating and sex feels good. What's wrong with feeling good as long as it doesn't hurt anyone?
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I beat my meat way more, friend
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I am female and I masterbate at least 4 times a week. The tub fossit is great for that also!!!
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you'll shoot your eye out!! you'll shoot your eye out!!
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married 17 years , still have sex several times a week , and masterbate almost daily
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If you did not masterbate i would think something is wrong about you . I do it every morning with or with out my girlfriend beside me
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been married 14 years been beating off at least twice a day 30+ years. still going strong
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dude, i get sex daily from my hottie, in any hole at least 3-5 times a day, and i still spank it at least 2-3 times daily did i mention shes a gymnist
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this is a great site but all this talk about jerkin is getting me excited!!!!Guess i will go be alone and beat it.any guys wanna circle with me
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Damn, I haven't had sex in 3 years or any kind of affection and I'm married.
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You are normal, it feels different when you do it yourself, it's a way to relax. It puts you in a better mood. I get plenty of attention from my bf, but still enjoy it regularly.
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When I was happily married I masterbated once a day on average (I think I did it so that I could control my libido because she was frigidish). Now I'm seperated and haven't smacked cyclops around in a week or so.
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I haven't had sex with my wife for 2 months and I beat it every day Did i mention Im 25 and we've only been married a little over a year
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My wife and I sometimes masterbate together. It is normal and great! We also masterbate seperately and each of us knows it. Have fun.
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Do it all you can nowRemember use it or loes it
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Yes.
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I think it is useless to jerk off.I would rather feel the tension.makes me work harder
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