I am the same way on the inside. I keep those thoughts and emotions to myself and keep a happy face as much as possible on the outside for exactly the same reason that you mentioned. I do not want people thinking I am cold.
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They THINK you're cold. It sounds like you ARE cold. Love "The Godfather" pic btw.
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You are who you pretend to be, so be careful who you pretend to be.
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perhaps you got rejected originally for being cold. Now you just be yourself (cold). Everybody in the cemetery is cold, too.
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Hopefully you'll freeze yourself to death. Fear is the weakest of all emotions, just realize that your coldness is only hurting you in the long run, especially once you realize you're just an old, lonely, cold, fat, bald, aging nobody. Life's too short dude.
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Then quit rejecting your self worth. Only you can decide how you want to be.
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2^ eh? Fear is no weaker than guilt or cruelty, rage or grief.
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I understand.. had the same thought earlier. I loved too much, lost too much. So now I hold back because I dont want to get close enough to anyone to be hurt when something happens to them or thay leave some other way. Its scary in its own way.......... The qoute "love like youve never been hurt" came to mind. But how???
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^That is the question, isn't it? BUT HOW?
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^ rescue a dog OR a cat. They are way better company than people.
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2 and 3 up. I know exactly what you are saying; but how? Read the book Adult Children of Alcoholics. Even if you aren't one, the question of keeping a distance from others is addressed.
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^ I am an adult of an alcoholic child !!
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Just close your eyes and run like you've never fallen and cracked your skull on a stone bench. ~Mr.Lucy wyatt
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I fully agree with the third poster : )
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The third poster has a unique position of having the insight of the first two posters without the often indecipherable bullshit of the many to follow ;)
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I don't give a rats ass what other people think of me. Why would I care what other people think? People are a** ****s. They don't know what is inside of someone else. To hell with what others think. Maybe if I were in a tribe and I wasn't pulling my fair share, but hey...those days are long gone. Nobody's helping me so why should I care about what they think.
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^Actually tribes are making a comeback. Not even a trillion dollars of war machinery can eradicate a good idea. Google tribal business. As for knowing what's inside of someone else, a few of us do. You are an open book, because you want to be seen. You should accept the help that is offered instead of going it alone all the time. I know that's scary, but being the leader always is, even when you know the hearts of your troops.
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^ You know who I am? Do you work for Rupert Murdoch? Did you like the Beatles a lot when you were younger?
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^Does any of that matter? You don't care what I think, remember?
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Well hey, I'm just trying to figure out who you are and how you could possibly know who I am. Who do I know that would have special government clearance to spy on people? I DID know someone like that. He was in military intel.
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He also was a brainwashed crusader of the dick cheney administration.
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