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u held on through the night,all u wanted in the end was to be with me.please forgive me girl for taking so much for granted.i love & miss u so much.i cry for u.

u held on through the night,all u wanted in the end was to be with me.please forgive me girl for taking so much for granted.i love & miss u so much.i cry for u.

 
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Aniamls are what we should look to for inpiration in life and direction. They love without strings. They love us, no matter how imperfect we are.
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Sorry for your loss :(
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1 up. We should not look to animals for inspiration in life and direction. They love like they do because they are so stupid. If they could rationalize they would think no different than us.
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3^ WTF? We should look for inspiration and direction from other humans.
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Animals love without conditions, all humans should learn to do the samething.. instead we judge, make stupid comments and make people feel bad when they are simply trying to help. STupid humans.. OP I'm sorry for your loss.
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1 up. It is because we are smarter then amimals, moron
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I feel, and I am one super intelligent sumbatch, that the male that posted this is referring to a woman !
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I love animals but I agree that we should not love like they do. IMO love needs conditions in order for it to grow and prosper just like a flower needs conditions to grow. I am tired of all of this unconditional love BS. It basically means give your love to ppl even when they are neglectful and abusive implying that setting them straight or setting boundaries is wrong. That just creates more disfunction and enabling of more BS. Sorry you lost your cat OP. I know that can be hard :(
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^Loving unconditionally does not mean avoiding conflict and repressing anger. If you think so, then you have a poor understanding of love.
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1 up. No I don't. Love comes in spurts.
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1 up....so do I !!
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5^ You sound like my Eng.101 teacher.
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1^....I did teach at The Short Bus Grammar School.
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5^ actually yes it does. Unconditionally means "no conditions" which means you love someone without any expectation and if you have no expectation you should have no conflict. It's heavily implied and plenty of ppl say things like "you don't love me unconditionally" when you confront them with things. My understanding of love as well as definitions of words and meanings is just fine thank you.
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1 up. I agree with you.
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2 cashews walked into a park...... one was a salted (assaulted)....The End
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1 up. Finish the joke.
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^ I did.
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1 ^ Oh. Ok. Yeah, Ok. Let me laugh... Baaaaahahaha!!!!!!!!!
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6^ Bullshit. "Love" means love. Ever heard of the phrase tough love? Do you think a mother who loves her child will let it walk into the street to avoid conflict? Love is not an absence of conflict. I can love a person, think they are wrong, and call them on it, all without calling into question my love for them. Obviously you're understanding leaves a lot to be desired, so hopefully this helped. You're welcome.
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So what does it mean to love without condition? It means that you can get old without worry of losing my love. It means you could be horribly disfigured without losing. It means you could become senile and burn down our house, leaving me with a tortured body and nothing else, and I'll still love. People who use love to shut down a conflict are actually using guilt. People who call into question love as a way to conflict are cruel and/or have poor conflict resolution skills.
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5 up...didnt even get a simple joke like that....then...tried to cover up their stupidity with,,oh yeah, lemme laff baaaahahahaha
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1 up. I am 6 up, 5 up, and 4 up. It wasn't a cover up. It was a joke to make fun of your stupid, elementary joke. you wrote what you did one up to cover up your own realization of how retarded your comment was 7 up.
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^ i liked the joke. sometimes it's good to not be so cranial.
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1 up: You are the original person who posted the very lame joke.
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^ Actually I'm not, but I have a clue who did, and I really like cashews.
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^ I'm nuts about them, too, wink!
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now, stand by for something dopey from I'm 6up, 5up, 4up, 8up, 7up....LMAO
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wait...Einstein went to Google "cranial" ROFL
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Cats are good eating. Tacos anyone?
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^They actually aren't. Most obligate carnivores are not tasty.
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my g/f is soooooooooooo tasty !!! w/cashews
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1 up. She sure is tasty. We leave out the cashews when I visit
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1 up.......get away from your moms computer and get back to summer school studying !!!
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Sorry for your loss
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