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I want to have sex with another man. I'm not gay, I'm not attracted to men. I have a fiance who knows. We have super hot sex. I just want some man on man sex.

I want to have sex with another man. I'm not gay, I'm not attracted to men. I have a fiance who knows. We have super hot sex. I just want some man on man sex.

 
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I did the same thing. I found the fantasy is better than the reality.
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^ Actually, most men who engage in homosexuality once or infrequently are quite heterosexual. Gay means being primarily attracted to men.
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If you want to have sex with a man then yes .......you are gay or at least bi. Your girl should run.
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I want to have sex with another man. I'm not gay, I'm not attracted to men. H U H ?????
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Dude, if you want to have sex with another man, you are either gay or bisexual.
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8^ Clearly a student of the human condition. You armchair experts are idiots revealing your prejudices and nothing more.
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not attracted to men yet you want to have sex with them....sorry to inform you but yeah that makes you bi curious.
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^ Not necessarily. OP did not say he was interested in exploring an attraction to males, that would be bi-curious.
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^what does "i want to have sex with a man" mean to you? pretty sure if he's never done it he wants to "explore it".
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OP here. I'm intrested in a man as a living breathing sex toy. That's it, that's why I say I'm not gay, I have no emotional intrest. No one can choose a label for me except me. If you think you are somehow better than me because of this post,then you are simply pathetic.
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not having emotional interest has nothing to do with sexuality. there are lots of heterosexual men who have no emotional interest in woman but still f*** them....and they would be straight. you on the other hand want to f*** another guy (more power to you!) which would make you a vortex bisexual. if you want to do a guy at least own it!
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^^...2up...I dont think i'm better than you....I just think i'm straight and you arent !!
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What part of "YOU ARE GAY" do you not understand?
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Men having sex with other men is HOMOsexual. HOMOsexual = GAY. End of story.
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4^ I wasn't speaking of 'attracted to' as emotional interest. Sexuality is more than emotional interest OR f***ing; it is self-identity. There is no clinical definition of homosexuality that applies, because it is not a clinical phenomenon. It is a social one. There are many heterosexual men who f*** guys occasionally. There are many gay men that f*** women sometimes. I've even known a lesbian to take a male lover. As an analogy, you can think of people who hold middle-class values, yet not due to a middle-class paycheck. For instance, they were raised in a middle class household or had a middle-class paycheck in the past. Socially, for class is a social trait like sexuality, these people are still middle-class, not poor or elite.
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The meaning of bisexual is having a sexual and/or romantic interest in both sexes. So if you like labels (i don't) you can call yourself bisexual. You said your fiance knows. How does she feel about it? Does she approve of you cheating on her with another man?
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2 up needs psychiatric help !!!!
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She thinks it's hot. I have not done anything with another man. It's a FANTASY. I guess I woud except bisexual as a label if that makes anyone feel better. Still not sure why that would make me less than anyone else.
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^you know whats funny? you are the one who thinks that being gay or bi makes you less than...no one else does. just accept the fact that you have a sexual attraction to men and are okay with it and move on with your life! get over the stigma that YOU are attaching to it....like so many men who are on the down low tend to do~
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2 up. I don't like labels either. I mean, they only exist to define who we really are. Besides, I don't think you are bisexual. But I am certain you would hold a cock in your mouth until the swelling goes down.
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2 up You are wrong about no one else thinking you're less....have you read the other comments? It's funny how two women can have sex and nearly every male in the universe thinks it's awesome, but when two men do, it's seen as sick, or the men are some freaks of nature. My belief is if it feels good and you aren't doing anything illegal or hurting anyone else, then enjoy your life. Unfortunately, due to the small-minded, the secret will probably have to remain a secret.
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I am the fiance. I do think it's hot. WE have a relationship. A sexual encounter with another man would be strictly physical and I'm sure I would be involved in it in some way. 2 up, Do labels define who we really are? So....if I label you an idiot, that means you are an idiot? That seems rather unfair don't you think.
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^..it means he is an idiot in your opinion only, gay boy lover.
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^It means you're a tuff guy. As long as you can hide behind your keyboard. I'm sure that's EVERYONES opinion, asswipe.
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...at least he is straight !!!
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3 up, exactly what I'm saying, people put labels on you but that isn't who you are so how can labels "define" you? I wasn't calling the commenter an idiot, I was making a point. Oh, and I'm not a gay boy lover because he isn't gay, but if he was, I would still love him because he's awesome. 2 up, Uh, aren't YOU hiding behind your keyboard, and actually, I'm a tuff girl :).3 up, how do you know it's a he? What does that even mean, "At least he is straight"?
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girl, you must be desperate to defend, promote and want to join your sword swallowing b/f.
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it shouldnt matter to him if someone else thinks he's less than...that just makes him insecure and points to internalizing his own feelings about the subject. being sexually attracted to men doesnt making you less than unless YOU feel that way. the bisexual thing doesnt bother me, but i would have a hard time sharing my partner with another person...to each his (or her) (or his lol) own.
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it's only gay if your balls touch and you make eye contact.
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the dude has some VERY STRONG gay tendencies and his g/f supports it. She is more messed up than he is. 2 up makes some good points. Its a disfunctional relationship, at best.
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Desperate? Really? You must live in a small world.
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Amazing how much you can learn about someone and their relationships with just a few anonymous posts.
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^...so true....all the nuts in this world arent on bolts !!!!
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I will be your living breathing sex toy, man. I have a lot of experience. I've already f**ked millions of people. My name is Obama.
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R O F L
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8^ Actually, social identities are social constructs. There have always been an extremely small number of people, relative to the population size, that can alone hold their own against the current social definition. Most people do so by relying on subcultural connections. The tighter these connections are, the easier it is for an individual to buck the norm without losing self-esteem.
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4^ I love bolts. Especially 8 to 10 inches long.
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Just please remember, longer bolts require more precise drilling. Wouldn't want to break one by driving in at too sharp an angel.
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I like to try all angles, have not broken one yet. I have, however made them become harder, maybe that's why they don't break.
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Do the hokey pokey and turn yourself around, cause that's what it's all about.
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I love schtick, but the wife hates it. Good for you, OP!
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3^ Same here. I have tried all the angles with the long bolt. Harder is one thing, but if you can get the nut on there are absolutely no worries of breakage.
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Hello Jenny McClean Pensacola airport, Delta ticket counter. Thank you for sucking my cock and letting me f*** you in the over nighters. Your husband needs to go get tested along with all of our coworkers that you f***.lmfao. muahahahaha sorry Earl your wife is a skank but i love f***in her.
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I've had sex with both sexes, and it turned out to be not a big deal at all. When you sex down to it, sex is a relatively small part of life.
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