Leave him. If he wanted to have sex with you, he would be. It's really that simple.
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No its not that simple. Has he been to the Doctor? It may be that its not that he doesnt want to have sex, maybe he cant and is just ashamed to say anything. Ive went through that and finally got medical attention, now everything works again.
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I will step in his place and make him the cuckold he deserves to be. Just let me know where to meet you and give you what you need and deserve.
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Find and throw away all of his porn and disconnect the Internet. Then he'll come around.
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He's had his chance and he passed it up. Go get what you need from whomever strikes your fancy.
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This is very complicated. Is he experiencing physical problems? Mental problems? Is he seeing someone else? You really need to have a long talk about this... If you both love one another you can work it out somehow.
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Hit the treadmill. It really is that simple.
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Have dick will travel
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We need to wife swap. He can have my fridged wife that has no interest in sex. You and I can fUck like animals!!
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start paying attention to the porn and internet usage, if he is young and healthy...that will probably lead you to the cause. either that or he is just cheating. check it out.
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He is obligated to you -in marriage to have sexual relations with you, his wife. He's not fulfilling his husbandly duty and he is ignoring you, so move on to a man who will be a husband to you in a healthy relationship.
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OP HERE- everything works on him jus fine, he wakes up with it everyday
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I posted earlier with the fridged wife. She also has a responsibility or wifely duty. But I don't want sex from her because it's her duty. I want passion and spontaneous fun. A connection. I don't want he'd reading a book or watching tv while we get it on. I want her horny and breathing hard and scratching up my back. Sucking my dick as I drive down the highway.
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^ me again, in other words, I want her to want sex because she needs it and wants it. Not because it's been a while and she figures it's about time to do it and get it over with so I'll stick around. I know none of you care but it feels good to say it and get it out
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^ well if you made her feel more sexy and actually touched her every now and again maybe she would want it
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Semen retention. Your man lost his positive charge, but he can repair the physical bond and recharge without either of you damaging your emotional bond.
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IDIOT who said it was the man's job to make her feel sexy. I had a GF who rocked the bed with me. After a few weeks of wild sex she admitted she had a hubby that she hated to screw. I dumped her right away and she was furious. Do you really think hubby telling that slut that she was sexy would have made her less of a sperm burping slut? Nothing would make a tramp like that happy.
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6^Have you ever actually given your frigid wife an orgasm. Do you know what a clit is? Maybe she doesn't want to have sex because she is tired of pretending it's as good for her as it is for you. Or, if she isn't happy in other parts of the relationship, that could cause her lack of interest. Foreplay starts outside the bedroom for women, you should try it.
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Women as so F'n work. They insist everything has to be for them and their way. When is the last time some of these pissed women went out if their way to find something to please their man? Everything is all about them. So few good women out there.
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2^ fridged wife guy here. She has an orgasm first and every time. I'm romantic and thoughtful. I send flowers and help with kids and household chores. Iknow my way around a pussy. I'm not a kid. I know what I'm doing. Been married 23 years. It's just dead. I can't explain it. But you women on here saying it must be my fault and I don't know what a clit is you're wrong. I do everything I can for her in and out of the bedroom. Not my fault. Been struggling for years with this.
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OP HERE_ my last comment wasnt fully posted :( n it wasnt nething bad, and frigid wife guy, sounds like u and i have a lot in common other than the nature of our sex (female/male) hes a stay at home while i work and do school, i get him everything he wants or needs, and when he lets me pleasure him in the a.m. n i still get not a darn thing in return!
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Frigid guy here, sorry op. At least we aren't alone.
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yeah but were left to ourselves :( someday well get what we fully deserve . . . i hope
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OP you are not alone.. I live this every day. My hubby only likes a hand job or oral sex, nothing else. I practice good hygiene, exercise etc. We have come to an understanding that I take care of his needs and have a lover take care of mine.
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thanks hun that helps, hes said i can be with another out of anger when i ask him y we are not, but i dont feel we should be together if it would b like that, it feels like hes a roommate already, and i would feel like it is baggage to another guy! im at the point where leaving isnt a bad option though
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men get so damn lazy in the bedroom, all of a sudden they think its all about THEM and thats when the wife strays..dont be such a POS in bed and we would be more happy. we just want the small things, hell just rub my leg or the side of my breast..rub my back w/o me asking. Kiss the small of my back...its the little things that you do to us that make us want to do the BIG thangs to you.
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what reason does he give to you as to why he doesn't want to please you sexually? Stop just doing it his way in the morning..why would you just do that and not make time to engage in actual SEX, you know? I know this sounds horrible, but, are you gaining weight? or maybe making him feel bad about himself for being the stay at home? honestly so you know too, his self-esteem might be suffering without you even being a part in it. Men's self esteem can sometimes walk hand in hand with their sexual performance..? What do you think?
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have you actually spoken to him about it?? I had a similar problem with my wife of 10 years. I put it to her that I wasn't staying around feeling unloved, and if she didn't want to love me I'd leave and find someone who would. its not fair to be treated like that, you deserve better. there are tons of guys who would love to screw your brains out and show you the love you deserve.
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I do believe you people enjoy your misery.
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2 up. Did you end up divorced? Over time my exwife gave me less and less pussy until it became nonexistent. When I realized it was permanent I divorced her. I have never been happier. Marriage is like owning a boat. The two happiest days is the day you buy it and the day you sell it.
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LEAVE HIM AND FIND SOMEONE WHO WANTS YOU!
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4^ tons of guys? At 300lbs a guy, that turns out to maybe be as little as 7 guys. Tons of guys isn't much to choose from unless they're slim pickins to begin with.
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Do you stink???
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I would like to know is it only in the bedroom that you are having trouble ? Or are there other aspects of your relationship that need work? Is it possible that you have grown apart? I have been married 23 years and once in awhile we get stuck in a rut and have to spice it up . Tell him if he is not willing to meet your needs then you will find someone who will.
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I smell like a field of tulips and strawberries and Marine sweat. Lick me. Hard.
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To the frigid wife guy, I'm the one that posted about giving her an orgasm. I wasn't accusing you of not knowing what to do, I was merely asking. Sounds like you are a great husband and deserve much better than what you are gettting. If you treated me like that I would f*** you three times a day, lol. Some women go through hormonal changes that take away their sex drives. Maybe she should see a doctor. Hope things work out for you.
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Maybe u need to loose some pounds and put something sexy on
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Yes, tell that to every woman because it's true and the men are tired of this crap.
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It been 5 years for my wife. Stop b****ing and treating him like a paycheck. Just a guess.
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uhm to one up, maybe u should read a lil further into this, ass wipe, i work and am furthering my education with college courses, full time on both, so 'treating him like a paycheck' what? i do all of it because i love him, and the only person im b****ing at is you! not every girl is a golddigger
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Fat smelly hams are a turnoff - Tron Guy
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uhm thats funny, cause i shower twice daily, he showers once weekly, i go to the gym a few times a week, he has no 'man' muscle, and thats in my schedule again of work, school, mom and maid, thanks though! i do like ham :D
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Fridged wide guy here. To the woman that said shed f*** me three times a day, if you did that I'd treat you like a queen!! But alas... Do you live in Texas?
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Next time he's watching some sporting event with his friends at your house. Go get him a beer, then kneel between his legs and suck him for the duration of the game. He or some of his friends will f*** you.
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