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Our dating was spectacular. I married you. Now you can't offer me what you once did. I passed up a great girl to be with you. Why can't you love me?

Our dating was spectacular. I married you. Now you can't offer me what you once did. I passed up a great girl to be with you. Why can't you love me?

 
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The same thing happened to me. Leave! now!
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well, hmm what do you mean she can't offer you what she once did?
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It's not worth it. Relationships, marriage, none of it. I just want to be alone.
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You fell for it, man. She gave up the anal to get the ring, but now she has the ring so no more "love", Spectacular indeed!
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Moral of this story, don't get married. Although you can still have a committed relationship without the wedding bells. It's about choosing to be with someone and not just staying because of a piece of paper.
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Didn't anyone tell you that's how it works?Also, did you choose the wrong one?
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OP here. Thanks for all the comments. I didn't want to die alone, so I married expecting companionship, a little attention and intimacy; I didn't think it was too much to ask for. The original flame burned out real quick. Yes, I most definately chose the wrong one. The other girl is still madly in love with me, but I'm stuck. No, I can't divorce. a little one is in the game now. As always, I have to be selfless and think of my daughters well being.
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Sacrifice is not a virtue.
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Please let me throw up now...I grew up in one of these scenarios...You aren't helping your daughter living in a loveless marriage.
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All the guys on here need to understand that a woman will always change as soon as she cuts the wedding cake.
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everything changes when you cut the wedding cake. Now you're "married"
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in SOME cases the MAN changes. He wants a house keeper, maid, laundress,cheif cook and bottle washer, NOT a whore. or at least THATS what im told about wanting intimacy. His wife should NEVER want *nasty sex*. It was all fun and games, and had a blast till we got married, NOW he wants virgin mary as his wife.
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yeah the men reel u in marry u then become a** ****s
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Wife and I had a cheesecake wheel instead of the traditional cake. We cut it and been happy ever since. Get on each others last nerve sometimes, but I couldn't imagine eatin ma beans without her.
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dont blame the childrenYOU love her admit thatand you might be okif you married someone and you knew they didnt love yousee it as a pay back for leaving theone that DID love youand then you can use as an excuse your children, because then MAYBE MAYBEthen it could be a minor sacrificebut not eventheir a gift of your love if not hersquit complainingnow deal with it
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lolyou love her and she prolly...you know its a mess right?
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little one in the game... don't worry she will be better off with two separated but happy loving parents than a couple joined together blaming her for thier misery.
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