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I don't love my husband anymore (12 yrs). He has hurt me too many times, his excuse....I hurt him. What a shitty cycle.

I don't love my husband anymore (12 yrs). He has hurt me too many times, his excuse....I hurt him. What a shitty cycle.

 
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Hurt people, hurt people.
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a shitty cycle? try a bi-cycle
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I've been married to thisone 4 thirty plus yrs.I haven't loved her since our little girl died.,but she can't live on herone. So I stay.Her daughter made up for some of the loss,but it's not the same. HER Daughter.
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^ When you married her, her daughter, became your daughter, love her like she is yours. I am so very sorry to hear about your daughter, I could not imagine. Bless your heart.
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What was your excuse for hurting him? Who hurt who first???
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leave then! life is short:-)
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^easier said than done. ^^ who even knows who started it or when it started I think we came to eahcother hurting from our childhood experiences and are together to learn something, but it's just SOOO hard. God help us.
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^ You gotta help yourselves, God is not going to come down from heaven, knock on your door, and council you. You have to open up and communicate if you think it's worth saving, you have to let things go and forgive and forget, you have to work on your marriage. If you just run away and never face your issues, guess what, your next relationship will be the same. Work through things instead of sweeping it under the rug. A resolution is on the other side.
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HONEY IS THAT U ??? !!!!! LOL LOL
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2^ Maybe. More likely they should have just been friends instead of lovers. Some people are capable of kindly helping others deal with emotional turmoil, but you NEVER EVER date an alkie when still learning to not be an alkie. How stupid. The next relationship will only be the same, if she chooses to get involved with yet another alkie.
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We aren't addicted to alcohol or any other substance, we just have deep issues we need to reolve, I am with the lady who says deal with it don't run away thats what I feel like I've been doing for 10 yrs now, We really need to just do better simple as that may sound but actually f***ing do it already, see that's the thing too, If I start doing better he doens't and I resent him then get upset becasue he won't change I give up.
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then stop hurting him
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this is sad
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^isn't it. To bad your not more usful in this situation, instead of posting your opinion why not post an idea.
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leave him...you won't be happy until you do.
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5^alcohol addiction is a metaphor. duh.
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3^ it is. sad. Useful? Like your pointless critique? I'll have to work on that. We weren't all born with such natural genius.
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Try anal sex. That should take your mind of your other hurt!
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I'll stop goosing you when you stop waving your ass in my face.
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